QUESTION FOR ALL WHO READS THIS  

hurtinglover 32F
14 posts
9/14/2005 5:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

QUESTION FOR ALL WHO READS THIS


OKAY ONE QUESTION :

IS THERE SUCH THING AS BEING ADDICTED TO SEX AND IF SO HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS TO MUCH AND THINGS ARE OUT OF CONTROL?

not saying i am i have a friend that is weirding me out and it is just kinda freaky and i am wanting everyones opinions on this.

69baby75 44F

9/14/2005 6:09 am

i myself do think it is addicting. as for signs im not so sure. i feel like maybe it is when you are getting it at home real good and yet you feel like you need more outside of your own relationship. oh damn i think i just described myself. im not sure we are all very sexual people we just have to learn our limits in our own particular situations.


Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
9/14/2005 7:01 am

I think the same guidlines as with any addition. It begins to be a major priority over and above other activities. You (or your friend) try to hide it or try to minimize the impact it is having on their lives. Interferes with your employment and close relationshoips. The person seems to be controled by it, rather then controling it. There is a lack of balance in their lives.


hurtinglover 32F

9/14/2005 4:30 pm

69baby.... thank you for your comment
goldenhair...... as for the person it is actually a friend and he got fired from a job cause he was caught having sex with a co-worker in the bathroom facility. To me he is addicted. He has gone above and beyond what i think he should just to get sex. I mean him and i are close and he has even went as far as when he cant find anyone to give him sex he asks me and gets mad when i say no. That is why I was wondering


hermano282 36M

10/6/2005 9:01 am

Hurtinglover, i saw you added me to hotlist, do you ever get up to C.R.? If you ever do you should let me know we could hook up. I cant get down to Burlington, thats why i ask. get a hold of me. Love.


Jmen48 64M
2 posts
8/6/2006 10:39 am

Hi hurting lover. Well I am a middle aged guy. For what is worth. I ammore turned on by regualr girls.Yes there is more to love. Would like to prove to you sometime if a middle age man does not turn you off.
About sex...well yes it can be addictive I believe. It gets very difficult though when in along relationship and that part of it is gone. Then is like each moment is a craving... everything in limitation and moderation is good.
Sorry to hear about your friend.My prayers and thoughts are with you. One thing I have NEVER done even when back in college.
Hang in there and if you want a one on one discreet hook up I can make to Davenport most anytime. I usually head over to the casino.
Love you be patient and be strong you are already beautiful just AS YOU ARE. If you change do for YOU not any guy or anyone.


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