Why am Not getting any traffic?  

hungry691956 60M
2 posts
8/7/2005 8:55 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why am Not getting any traffic?

Hi I was just wondering why my profile is not getting much attention. Please feel free to give any input.
I will view this as a wayto make it better if at all possible.


redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
8/7/2005 3:01 pm

Hungry, unfortunately you have discovered the reality behind AdultFriendFinder. The ratio of men to women is pretty one-sided.....too many of us....too few of them. My suggestion to be successful here is to get out there and post. The more you post, the more you will be seen. Sitting and waiting for the world to come to you is not a good stategy here.

Good Luck.....


SparksFlyin4U 58F

8/18/2005 1:04 am

Hi there Hungry... nice to see you! ~wink~
I read your profile, and it's very nice. I wouldn't change a word. The one thing that I might suggest is this: there are many women on here who are Standard Members. All they can see of you is a thumbnail photo. I know your thumbnail on our Group is so small, and there is so much "white" in it that I can't make you out at all. Now that may be what you want, but you might get more attention putting on a different picture... maybe something not in a suit (personally I LIKE business attire, but I think some women read it as stuffy.) Maybe put on something colorful, and get someone to take a picture of you in a more candid pose... like sitting by a pool, or at an outdoor bar with one of those drinks with the little umbrellas in it? LOL! Oh, I don't know! You get the idea. A bigger picture and more close up.

And one other thing that I hate to even tell you, because I hate them, but.... a more "nude" photo gets much higher on the list to be viewed than one that is "G" rated. The site does it. They think it makes the site more "provacative." But promise me you won't put a "dick pic" on!! God, how I hate those! Maybe just a side view with a towel draped in just the right spot... be creative.

And BTW, everything Red said, above, is all true. Good luck! ~Sparks


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