hey girls im new here !!  

3 posts
11/21/2005 8:00 am

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3/29/2006 4:30 pm

hey girls im new here !!

please can some girls give me tips and advice !!
and what to expect - how to meet- thnx

starlight_runner 39F

12/2/2005 3:59 am

Use the email/message filters (if they are working) Delete anything that has a one word or crude title as the content will usually be crap.Having a picture increases responses tenfold, you can use one that doesnt identify u.Look around for inspiration.Know what you want there are lots of timewasters and fake profiles on here.Make sure your profile is specific and detailed.Use your blog to say more about you "bloggers tend to b more real" so it can b good to make friends with peeps here who will look out for you.

Look out for emails that are generic, many play the numbers on here and send out multiple emails to everyone in there area.To check identity get them on cam or phone early on.Often pics are not an accurate representation, ask them when it was taken.

When meeting usual date rules apply.Let someone know or take a friend.It depends what you want as to location etc , but give yourself a means of esxcusing yourself if its not upto much, or they arent.-smilz-

Most of all tho have fun with it and remember u are in control.Dont take crap either just because u are online doesnt mean u shouldnt expect good manners and coutesy.

Finally try not to get addicted.lol

Remember there is a world outside here and this should be seen as a suplement to "normal" dating .It is often easier to meet peeps in a bar on a normal night out.

Think that covers most points.So relax look round and have fun, but be aware

Kisses Star

rm_francovel3 34M
2 posts
1/20/2006 8:59 am

AdultFriendFinder let me know if u wana meet up

rm_pnb85 44M
31 posts
2/9/2006 2:08 am

Sorry to post a reply to this as i know you said "girls"... but...the main thing seems to be that you should not rush in. Certainly follow the points made out by Star as they are valid points. A lot of men on here are either time wasters or pic hunters or just w@#kers..there are so many men to chose from that there must be someone here for you. Have fun with it. you are a standard member so searching will be harder but i bet you get hundreds of emails or winks a day. You can reply to a number of emails a day. Dont give your personal email unless you are sure the man is at least not going to stalk you. I hope that helps a bit.

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