Gotta love Mondays  

hotnympho81 35F
156 posts
11/14/2005 5:06 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Gotta love Mondays

Just when I think my divorce can’t get any worse the ass has to take me back to court. We are not coming to terms with the whole holiday visitation schedule and now he is dragging taking me back to court over it. He even gave me a paper on how we should co-parent the boys OMG, what a fucking joke that was. The man wasn’t even smart enough to rewrite it in his own words. He took it word for word from the book that he got on divorces with young children. This from the man who took the boys away from me for 2 whole weeks. His reasons I was an endangerment to myself and my children. The only person I am a danger to is him!

I would so love to put the paper he gave me up for all of you to read but it’s to long but I will share a few things that he put in it just so you all can see what an idiot the man is.

This is his PARENTAL AGGREMENT please try and contain all of your laughter until you have read the whole thing. On second thought that may be to hard so feel free to laugh whenever. All of this will be word for word what he put in the paper. My comments will be in bold writing.

~ Both of us agree to foster love and respect, even in trying times, between the children and the other parent. Neither of us shall do anything that may estrange the boys from the other parent (or future partner) or hamper the natural and continuing relationship between the children and either parent.

~Further, we understand that each of us has or may establish and emotional/romantic relationship with another adult, and neither of us requires that such relationship be a martial relationship nor shall either attempt to limit the parental rights of the other solely on the grounds that such a relationship may/or may not be a martial relationship.

~The personal possessions of the children are, as we both acknowledge, their personal property. They are to have complete freedom as to where they want their personal property; they may leave clothing, shoes, toys, etc at either of their homes, subject to a rebalancing of those items at periodic intervals.


It goes on and on with just more fluff. Nothing to do with what actually matters like their college funds which I have already started. His grand plan savings bonds that’s where the money’s at people savings bonds HA! All he is worried about is that his woman gets to spend time with MY kids while he is gone on deployment. Now did I miss something in this equation? I don’t remember HER being part of US while I was pregnant. Now I’m all for the blended families my mom and step father have been together since I was 2. I don’t know much about this person and what I do know isn’t all that great, so why would I give someone else rights to my kids?? Call me crazy but I just don’t see it happening.

Thanking you for taking the time and reading my rant. Please feel free to comment or just laugh if you wish.

dapperdrdan 43M

11/14/2005 5:29 pm

Hi babes

Sorry about the troubles .. and it was such a beautiful day
Get yourself a lawyer and fight this. You are the mother - you are prone to get full custody

hotnympho81 35F

11/14/2005 6:10 pm

Lawyers are a grand idea if you have the three grand to cough up. Which doesnt even cover the whole divorce. A divorce with young children can go up to twenty thousand dollars. I'm piss poor right now so no lawyer for me. I just have to go in and do the best I can to prove that I am the better parent.

dapperdrdan 43M

11/14/2005 8:15 pm

Ah too bad .. OK .. here are a few helpful links:

Good luck
-Dapper Dr Dan

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hotnympho81 35F

11/17/2005 12:38 pm

Trav my dear nothing you have nothing to fear. As long as you dont marry me then we get brake up move your girlfriend in just days later.

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