Is it Love?  

hotnhard4anythin 42M
3 posts
7/3/2005 11:12 am

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Is it Love?


So this has been bugging me for awhile and I don't know what to do. I have a friend who after knowing really well for 4 years--I recently figured out that I am in love with her! We were in sort of boss/employee situation and I never let myself cross that boundary. Now that she is moving away I realize how much I truly care for her.

So here is the dilemna.....

I am still horny and enjoy messing around...but I find myself unfulfilled because none of the other women can match up to my 'perfect girl'. She knows I love her as a friend, but she has no idea of my true feelings. She will be going away for at least 2 years and I am sad. I am also confident that we will be together if all is meant to be.

It is just hard to truly enjoy myself with others right now since they cannot compare. However, I can't imagine not hooking up for 2 years just because they are not my dream girl. What to do........I need to get laid...but I only love one person

69SexGodess 51F

7/3/2005 12:54 pm

If you truly love this girl, tell her she is the only one for you. then after or if you get the girl if you still feel the desire to messaround then do so.

If you miss this opertunity to tell the girl you love her more than a friend you may not get the opertunity again.


bella_ 47F
4030 posts
7/3/2005 1:32 pm

tell her.


eager4unow 60M  
1092 posts
7/3/2005 2:49 pm

I've been in this situation before. I knew this girl for about one year and we were very close friends but I found myself getting serious about her but she "only" wanted to be friends. Finally I decided to tell her how much I loved her. And come to find out she felt the same way about me. The relationship lasted about 6 months but we split on good terms and still stay in touch. Hey hotnhard4anythin, my advice would be go with what your heart tells you before she leaves, you don't know how she really feels about you until you ask. Good luck man.


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