Hmm Are We Crazy , Question For Men?  

hotlegscouple 67M/62F
104 posts
8/30/2005 4:23 pm

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Hmm Are We Crazy , Question For Men?

We Have to admit we are new to this style but in the short time we've wondered something that I hope someone will tell us if we are crazy, old fashioned, or are all swingers like this. I suppose this is more of a question from a mans point of view. First of all we know why we are on this site. SEX!!!!!!! We love it as much as anyone here. Not the boring type in the bedroom. Anyway, we've honestly been on several sites gotten respones and told them where we were to talk on messenger. Now these are people we've just met and starting talking too. So some responses after the first hello, how are you are out of the way and we can't say a minute has gone by that right away they ask well show here tits man, man you got to show them, to lets do your wife, just plain rudeness. Instead of trying to find out a little information like are we D&D free, do you use condoms, safe sex, drink, or smoke, etc., when available, best time to call, etc. Questions we feel might be important in deciding whether to continue. So what is the rule of etquitte for swingers. Is this common or are we out of the loop. We are not trying to say everyone has been that way but some have and by no means are we being prudish. Maybe, some will think that after they read this I don't know. Does anyone out there understand what I am trying to say. Please let me know.

rm_abebb 58M
56 posts
8/30/2005 9:13 pm

first there were the phone pervs, commonly known as the wienie wanker who who got off on making obscene phone calls to strangers. then with the advent of the telephone chat lines the wanker moved in to the ligitimate arena, now making such calls legitimately to unsuspecting chaters on telephone chat lines. then came the internet with web can which moved the wanker into a whole new arena, since now could he not only make his dirty calls ligitimately, he could also see his victims and they could see him. i think you have fallen victim to the mondern day wanker who gets off on masturbating rather than actual participation. this bird will lie and use any kind of con job such as pretenting they are interested in meeting you, just to get a peek at your wife's tits and beat off while doing it or even to get a look at your equipment. he is sort of the wanker and peeping tom combined into one. a good rule is as soon as they start with thier routine, politely or impolitely get rid of them and move on. and yes, some females are wankers too. and worse; one thing i constantly ran into on phone chat was the male wanker who would attempt to pass himself off as a woman and was even able to talk in a woman's voice. when ever i would suspect this, i would call them a fag or tell them they were men and to get lost and then they would start cursing me out in a man's voice. lol obviously, i prefer the impolite approach to handling this sort.

hotandhorny107 58F

8/30/2005 10:28 pm

I certainly know what you mean, since I have had it happen to me more than once. I insist that any contact talk to me by either email or IM at least once or twice before even thinking of arranging a face to face. I want to know that the potential partner has a brain in his head. I am not looking for Einstein for crying out loud. But some degree of intelligence is a must. And I prefer someone with more education than a high school diploma. Trust me it makes a big difference. No I am not being a snob. It just seems that those with more education are more apt to ask the questions you mentioned and although we are all here for the same reason, and seem more desireable.

BTW, guys like those you mentioned are quickly removed from all buddy lists and quickly forgotten..

MiAmore62 49M

8/31/2005 6:15 pm

It almost seems futile on here... Its so fucking hard to actually find a person who wants what WE want....and isnt out there doing EVERYONE.....either they do everyone it seems, or they just want to talk sex and not meet at all....but they pretend they want to meet..... with some.... I guess if there si some emailing going on you MIGHT want to look past the stupid questions the FIRST time you talk.... unless he gets TOTALLY out of hand he may be nervous....or he MAY just be someone who will swing with anyone and thinks that is what you are looking for.... Be clear in what you want and dont settle for less. And let me see your feet dammit!!

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