Approaching the subject of SEX  

hotiowastud2 53M
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10/26/2005 3:52 am

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Approaching the subject of SEX

Now, for an old married guy I can't complain. My wife and I have been enjoying somewhat regular sex for the past six months.

Now it's not goddessofbitchesSEX or encounters such as
has. But it's been good.

However, our routine is nust that, a routine. Now I won't bore you with the details, but I will say I'm going to talk with her about it and suggest some different approaches we can have.

We have great sex, it's just getting going is our problem sometimes. Picture her watching TV, kids in bed upstairs. Please give me an idea where to take it from here, because all of my attempts have failed!

I will use one (or more) of your suggestions and report back! Be creative! Thanks...

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

10/26/2005 7:15 pm

The kids are asleep....your watching t.v.
You glance over...take her chin into your hand...look into her eyes....and remind her that she still looks absolutely beautiful.

Tell her that you love her and that you want to show her right now...just how much love you hold for her. Then...slowly kiss her neck and move down from there. Take the time and go slow...kiss her nipples...gently suck on them...and then..move downtown on her. Stay matter how long it takes...just stay there loving and licking her...making her climax and getting her to the point she wants to yank you onto her...

Then continue to move slow....slow sex...
With her laying sit up to where you are positioned to comfortable massage her clit. Lick your fingers and get them wet. Make sure that she is slick down there and begin to slowly thrust in and out while lightly rubbing her clit...try different touching it lightly...or pressing a little harder until she really moans...then you know you have the right combo...

Once she cums....make sure you take your time...kiss on her...tell her you love her...and when the time is right..and you will know...come inside her *or whereever she prefers* Then just lay next to her on the couch touching her and stroking her head, face, stomacge....anywhere but certain places that are sexual. Complimenting her and repeating how much you love her will fill her with joy.



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hotiowastud2 53M

10/27/2005 4:38 am

Thanks for the tips ladies! I like both suggestions. I'll let you know what I did (will do tonight!)

kelly402005 52F

10/27/2005 10:37 am

Ok, here goes..... from all that you've posted in your blogs, I get the feeling that you are, "a regular" kind of guy..... Don't keep your sex life regular!!!!! You know, the same old stuff, fucking in the bed kinda thing....
When you see that she may be in the mood for something, "new, not regular" -sneak out to that ballpark. You don't have to do it on the pitchers mound, do it on the bleachers or the announcers box!
-If you have a truck, do it in the back of that!
-If you have a nice back yard, act like teenagers again, do it on a lounge chair out there!
-My car has a back seat back that folds down into the seat, the back seat and trunk are all there for play!
-Sit at the computer screen, write about her and how much she makes you what you are, let her read all that you type, don't post or send it anywhere..... let her take your words in one by one... Please her next, anyway she wants..... I am quite sure she will give you what you like then.......

Overall, what I am trying to say is, get creative, don't keep it regular... you've had all of those other experiences.. she knows you for what you are, show her it's still the same.... don't grow old together, grow "great" together!


hotiowastud2 53M

10/28/2005 4:32 am

Thanks Kelly! We've gone through periods of non-regular sex like that. It just seems like recently we're "rutted".

For us just doing it downstairs would be creative.

Thanks for the response!

Update: I was going to go for it last night but both the "Apprentice" and "ER" were rivoting and we both got to far into it. "ER" had been dissapointing, so I was planning on turning that off, but we just couldn't. In-Laws are coming tonight so I may be shut out till Sunday night...we'll see.

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