The "Are you Dominant or submissive" Test  

hotgfor69 49F
44 posts
2/25/2006 2:23 pm

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12/24/2008 10:33 am

The "Are you Dominant or submissive" Test


This test is to help you determine, if you don't already know, if you're Dominant or submissive. This is especially helpful in the bedroom if you want to know whether you're a top or bottom, Master or slave, etc. sometimes, opposites attract in this forum, but usually, passive people match better with other passives. If you're Dominant, you'll probably have a more sexually fulfilling relationship with a submissive, and if you're submissive, you'll probably be much happier with someone who is Dominant. Take the test to find out where you are...

1. You see yourself as...
Dominant
Submissive
Switch
I dunno

2. Are you a virgin?
Yes
No

3. Are you usually on the top or bottom during sex?
Top
Bottom
Both about the same
I already told you, I'm a virgin!

4. Oral?
Giver - YUMMMY!
Giver - It makes them happy
EWWWW
Suck it

5. Has anyone ever ordered at a restaurant for you?
Yes
No

6. When you're in a group of friends, who decides what you're going to do/where you're going to go?
Me
Someone else in the group
We decide as a group

7. Who manages your money?
Are you kidding? I do!
My partner does, I'm lazy.
I'm supposed to manage money?

8. Who cooks?
My partner
I am a master chef!
I cook
Take-Out is my best friend

9. Who initiates physical pleasure?
I do
My partner does
I do, but only because my partner tells me to.

10. You just finished having sex, who does the after-sex clean up (towels, water, smokes)?
I do
My partner does

11. Bondage?
Tie me up!
I'll do the tying, thank you

12. Are you a talker or a watcher?
Talker
Watcher
uhhh.. i talk SOMEtimes...

13. Back Rubs
Giver
Taker
A little of both

14. When you're in a relationship, and a compromise is necessary to resolve a dispute/argument, who usually compromises/takes the fall/sacrifices?
I do, it's fair, I don't like confrontation
My partner does, I'm stubborn

15. You're in a bar enjoying a drink. You see a hottie across the room. You..
wait for him/her to make a move.
walk over and introduce myself.
glance over casually once in a while, waiting

16. You're on your first date with someone. At the end of the date..
You make the first move
You hope for the other person to move in...
You tell the other person to make a move

17. You are in a meeting for your job, discussing a project. Your boss has an idea, but your idea is more cost effective and efficient. Your bosses superior is present. You make your suggestion..
afterwards, so your boss isnt shown up
during the meeting. Hey - it's a good idea!
make suggestions, giving your boss false credit

18. In a crowd you are...
the focus of attention
an alert observer (middle of the group)
in the outer most part of the group, watching

19. Who controls the remote control?
I do
My partner does

20. Household chores?
that's what submissives are for
yes, Sir

21. Who does the grocery shopping?
I do it
My partner does it
We do it together

22. Who drives?
I drive
My partner drives
I don't drive, so my partner does it for me
My partner doesnt drive, so I do

23. In a time of crisis you often...
keep a level head and make logical choices
have difficulty dealing with stress, and cry
take a lot of time-outs to evaluate resolutions

24. Your partner tells you that they don't want you socializing with anyone of the opposite sex without them being around, you...
leave. I make my own choices
agree, but with compromised terms
agree, and do what you're told

25. Your partner drops to their knees in front of you while you're sitting on the couch. You...
reach forward and pull thier face to your crotch
blink, and wonder what they're doing
kneel next to them, and giggle
pin them down on the floor and have your way

26. You're in a social group, and someone insults you. You...
wait for your partner to stand up for you
argue defensively
hold your ground, and reply with logic

27. Your partner asks you to get them a drink in the middle of a movie, you...
pause it, so they can get it themselves
pause it, so you can get it for them
leave it running, and suggest they get it
leave it running, and get them one

28. Who decides what position you'll try in bed tonight?
I do.
My partner does
We both do.

29. You know what a collar is and you...
want to wear one
want your partner to wear oen
...all shirts have collars, what?

30. You feel like you are in control of your life
Yes
No

Send answers for your score...

sall19 50M/50F
7 posts
3/30/2006 12:08 pm

HI,MICHEIIE. IT SALL & DEBBIE IF YOU ARE STILL
INTERESTED IN US PLEASE LET US KNOW


luluandfred 40M/44F
6 posts
4/2/2006 5:40 pm

1) C
2)no
3) C
4) A
5) No
6) C
7) N/A
N/A
9) A
10) N/A
11) A
12) C
13) A
14) N/A
15) B
16) B
17) B
1 B
19) B
20) N/A
21) A
22) B
23) C
24) B
25) B
26) C
27) B
2 B
29) A
30) A


richwalkxl 41M

5/8/2006 9:34 pm

nice...


tally012 40F
1 post
5/27/2006 2:52 pm

i need someone to dominate me, i am shy but sweet {Brooklyn Girl}


leonard413 44F

7/13/2006 6:28 pm

1.switch/both 2.No 3.Top!!! 4.Yummy! 5.No 6.Me 7.I do 8.I cook 9.I do 10.I do 11.Tie me up 12.Watcher 13.A little of both 14.I do 15.glance over casually 16.Hope the other person 17.During the meeting 18.Alert observer 19.My partner 20.That's what sub's are for 21.I do 22.Partner 23.Level headed 24.leave 25.Pin down 26.hold my ground 27.Leave it running and get them a drink 28.I do 29.I want to wear one 30.Yes


redzz83 33M
1 post
7/31/2006 10:57 am

TO THe point MAMA how Can I be apart of that action BAbes if I m welcome hit me AdultFriendFinder


rm_WIgoddess 30F
2 posts
8/17/2006 9:37 pm

1. Switch
2.No
3. Both about the same
4.EWWWW
5. No
6.We decide as a group
7. Are you kidding? I do!
8.I am a master chef!
9. I do
10.My partner does
11.I'll do the tying, thank you
12. Talker
13. Taker
14. My partner does, I'm stubborn
15.walk over and introduce myself.
16.You tell the other person to make a move
17. during the meeting. Hey - it's a good idea!
18. an alert observer (middle of the group)
19.I do
20. yes, Sir
21. we do it together
22.I don't drive, so my partner does it for me
23. keep a level head and make logical choices
24.leave. I make my own choices
25. blink, and wonder what they're doing
26. hold your ground, and reply with logic
27. pause it, so you can get it for them
28.I do.
29. want your partner to wear one
30. Yes


MistressJamocha 53F
1 post
9/7/2006 3:20 pm

Very informative. This test is also on wwwfugaldomme.com


wams1718 41F

9/12/2006 4:38 am

1. Submissive; 2. no; 3. bottom; 4. suck it; 5. no; 6.We decide as a group; 7. are u kidding? I do; 8. I cook; 9. My partner does; 10. My partner does; 11. I will do the tying up, thank you; 12. watcher; 13. A lil of both; 14. My partner does, I am stubborn; 15. glance over casually once in a while, waiting; 16. tell the date to make a move; 17. make suggestions, giving false credit; 18. alert observer; 19. I do; 20. yes, sir; 21. I do it; 22. I don't drive, my partnr does it for me; 23. keep a level head and make logical choices; 24. N/A; 25. Reach forward and pull their face to my crotch; 26. hold your ground and reply with logic; 27. pause it, so they can get it themselves; 28. my partner does; 29. N/A; 30. Yes;


chocolatenana4U 39F
1 post
11/12/2006 5:58 am

I already know that I fall into the submissive category, but interesting blog! THanks for sharing.


rm_OkiDiva220 46F
27 posts
12/4/2007 5:00 am

1. B
2. B
3. C
4. A
5. No
6. B
7. I'm Un attached
8. Again Not Attahed
9. B
10. B
11. 50/50
12. Watch
13. Giver
14.I Do
15. Glance
16.B
17.B
18. Outer
19. Not attached
20. Yes Sir
21. Not attached
22. Not attached
23. Keep level head
24. Agree w/ terms
25. Reach forward
26. Hold ground / logic
27. Pause but I would get it
28. we both do
29. Want to
30. NoOkidiva220


blackbanana75 41M
25 posts
1/25/2009 11:19 pm

1- SWITCH
2- NO
3- TOP
4- GIVER [IT MAKES THEM HAPPY]
5- NO
6- WE DECIDE
7- I DO!
8- I COOK
9- I DO
10-MY PARTNER DOES
11-I'LL DO THE TYING
12-TALKER
13-A LITTLE OF BOTH
14-I'M STUBBORN!
15-I WALK OVER AND INTRODUCE MYSELF
16-I MAKE THE 1ST MOVE
17-DURING THE MEETING, HEY! IT'S A GOOD IDEA
18-AN ALERT OBSERVER
19-I DO
20-I'M CLEAN, SO I CLEAN!!
21-I DO [I'M SINGLE]
22-I DO
23-KEEP A LEVEL HEAD
24-I MAKE MY OWN CHOICES
25-PULL HER FACE TO MY CRUTCH THEN PIN HER TO THE FLOOR & HAVE MY WAY
26-HOLD MY GROUND AND REPLY WITH LOGIC
27-PAUSE IT SO I CAN GET IT FOR THEM
28-I DO
29-ALL SHIRTS HAVE COLLARS.....
30-MOST TIMES


eatpieallday2 52M

10/1/2010 2:55 pm

1.We gotta switch babe
2.Started in the 3rd grade.
3.Both about the same
4.Giver - YUMMMY! Giver - It makes u happy! Suck it for me baby\8b
5.Yes
6.We decide as a group
7.I will!
8.Together unless u r tired
9. I do
10.would u babe?
11.I'll do the tying, thank you
12.Talker
13.A little of both
14.I do.
15.Glance over casually waiting for her come hither look
16.Read the body
17.I make my suggestion...after wards
18.Alert observer.
19.u do
20.Share'em
21.Together of course
22.We'll decide together
23.Keep a level head and make logical choices
24.I make my own choices
25.Pick u up and kiss u passionately, hold u tightly.
26.Reply with humor
27.Leave it running, and get u one
28.We both do.
29.U wear the collar baby girl?*
30.No


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