Ranting and raving  

hotcloviscouple 51M/45F
42 posts
12/21/2005 10:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Ranting and raving


So we went to meet a woman from this site last night and she no-showed. Is there anything more rude than just blowing someone off without even calling. I mean come on if you don't want to meet just say no don't lie.

We are so selective about who we even chat with much less plan to meet you would think we could avoid these issues. At least when we don't want to meet we have the decency to tell the person. Come on folks being honest is the key to these kind of realtionships. Hope others aren't having this issue.

Any advice out in blogland on how to separate the fakes from the real people, we are new to this site but definitely not new to the lifestyle and haven't encountered these problems on other sites.

fuzzylogic_y2k 36M

12/28/2005 4:47 pm

Well there are always going to be flakes! Here are some of the trends that I have noticed with them.
1. No Pic/Cam (truely blind)
2. Their Profile was generated rather than written.
3. Lack of Real Testimonials
4. They always call you, you have no number for them.
5. They seam guarded or unconfident.

Now this isnt to say that these are indicators of flakes because I have met some that meet those criteria. (and had some fun!) But they do serve as good warning signs.


hotcloviscouple 51M/45F
24 posts
1/6/2006 3:50 pm

Thanks for the input, we have only been here a short time and aren't having the best luck. I am wondering if it is the area we live in. We never had this type of problem wehn we were in the LA scene. Oh well, I guess we just keep trying


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