Run Away...  

hotandpinkcunt 36F
55 posts
2/16/2006 2:13 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Run Away...


He sent me sms and also an e-card to me on Valentines Day. He really confused me.
He asked me to go out tomorrow night. I don't think I will go.
well, I have not talked to him for 2 days. I just wanna run away...

whats4dessert2 49M

2/16/2006 5:57 pm

HPC:

On the contrary. I think that you should tell him what you really think rather than run away.

I think you should tell him that, although you may like him, he has a g/f and that you're too good to be "the other woman". I'd also suggest to him that if he wants to leave his girlfriend then he should leave her and then maybe give you a call and you'll consider going out with him.

However, caution him that if he is going to leave her to make sure he leaves her for his own reasons and make sure he doesn't "leave her for you". If he says he's going to leave her for you then he's refusing to take responsibility for ending a relationship and he's not only making you into "the other woman". He's also turning you into the excuse for his actions. In my books that makes him a coward.

Sieze control of the situation. Set your terms. Tell him if he wants to pursue you, that's fine. Once he dumps his girlfriend you'll be happy to consider responding to his emails, his sms messages and his phone calls. Then again, you may choose not to respond. Tell him you'll cross that bridge when he does the right thing and leaves her. At that point you and you alone will decide if the has a hope in hell with you.

If you take this approach you'll accomplish two things. It will show whether his convictions about you are genuine and he truly cares enough about you to "take a risk" and it will put you in control of the situation.

If he tells you that he's not going to leave his g/f or the he "promises he will if you'll only go out with him" then tell him to take a hike then watch him run away. It may hurt you to do it but you'll feel stronger in the long run.

Best of luck to you


rm_Snoopy29m 40M
172 posts
2/19/2006 9:11 am

He (who ever that is) is still wantint to contact you .

If you dont want to be friends or more .

Tell him that, dont let him guessing wtf is going on

Men are mind readers .

Dont run away , tell him wtf is going on .


rm_wenchang1966 46M
404 posts
2/19/2006 10:04 pm

Because you are not satisfied him, so he is contiusly contact you.


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