Re the Offer  

hotandhorny107 58F
339 posts
10/2/2005 2:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Re the Offer

After much consideration and self exploration, I have decided not to take an offer that would have solved a lot of problems I am currently having, mostly financial of course.

The first reason was it just did not feel right. I don't want to be seen as a kept woman and felt that it would severely limit my freedom as I now know it. Not just as to who I see and where I go, but I feel that it would, at this time, stunt my growth as an individual. I have always had someone in my life that I was accountable to, whether it be a parent, a child, or a husband. Right now I do not want that any more. I want to be able to come and go as I please, see who I want and see them when I want. This does not mean I won't spend extended time with anyone, just that I have a place of my own and although it is often a struggle it is still mine. I will know if and when I am ready to give that all up.

The second reason of course, is also mentioned above. I like to see different people and of course if it works, have a physical relationship. Living with someone else does not fit well in that picture. Granted I have played with the idea of MFM at some point, but I don't think he would be interested in playing or at least would have to be part of the decision making process. So that is my second reason not to take the offer. I will continue to see him, go away with him etc. Just not planning to change my address any time soon.

rm_sropa 46M
5 posts
10/4/2005 6:46 am

Good for you. You are making a decision for you. I think more people need to do that. Make decisions for number 1. I dont think it is selfish at all. I think you just know what you want right now. That doesnt mean you might change your mind in the future just that you dont want to have a live in now.

Good luck

jr289000 44M

10/7/2005 1:44 pm

Stay independent - it may be a struggle at times, but it seems that too many people in life give up on their dreams and desires for somebody and a situation that they know just won't work.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
10/14/2005 1:21 am

Good for you

you'll know if you are ready to take that step with someone

until then enjoy your freedom

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