Aggresive behavior.  

hotandhorny107 58F
339 posts
6/27/2005 11:35 pm

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Aggresive behavior.

Okay, I have been talking to a man from the site that is a bit far in distance from me that wants to come in and meet me. However, so far he has presumed that we will indeed end up in bed and he will be staying here for a weekend. Now, it would be different if I actually invited him here, but I did not. Not only that but when we do chat, he seems fixated on the physical side of the meeting rather than the getting to know you part.

I am sure I made it very clear to him that there were no guarentees, and if he was looking for one he was barking up the wrong tree. And when we chatted earlier today, I told him that there would be a change of plans, since I had decided to to go away Sunday instead of spending the whole day with him. (His plan was to come Saturday and leave late Sunday). He seemed rather put out and pretty much acted like a spoiled brat. Now I am seriously considering calling the whole thing off, since he really has totally pissed me off acting like it was his toes that were stepped on.

I have not met this person before and am not liking his attitude or behavior. Knowing this in advance, I think that it would be a very bad idea for me to meet up with him, since I have already had an opinion form and it is not a good one.I don't like men that are selfish and self centered, and he seems like one, and I think I will call the whole thing off.

ExploreMore4Me 59F

6/28/2005 4:41 am

Trust your internal instincts. If something isn't sitting right, or you've got internal alarms going off...then listen to those safe always!

WowieZowie1 56M

6/28/2005 11:15 am

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, & quacks like a's probably a duck. You know what you have to will only prevent any problems or headaches in the end.

steve122064 51M

6/28/2005 4:39 pm

you cant really enjoy a women without getting to know her.sounds bad,break the strings!

rm_Mick22059 58M

6/29/2005 2:44 am

Sounds like a bad deal.Will be off all day Friday 7/1/05.Taking a long weekend.

hotandhorny107 58F

6/29/2005 8:59 am

Thanks to all that commented, and of course I decided to trust my instincts and call the whole thing off. I emailed him and told him that I was totally uncomfortable with the whole thing and no longer wanted to meet. I have not heard anything back yet, nor have I seen him on line yet. Hopefully he will understand and accept things as they are. I did not give him any personal information, other than my phone number, which is not even in my name.

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
6/29/2005 10:21 pm

Just be patient, ( I know it can be rough)there will be one that will pass by and continue to use your instincts, and snag em, cause that one will be the one worth waiting

rm_Mick22059 58M

7/3/2005 10:06 am

Noticed you have been viewing my profile quite often.
We have to chat sometime.

Lipator 56M
71 posts
7/7/2005 11:44 pm

I think you did the right thing. I cannot understand people like that. Really!!!

tatybe 53M
1 post
7/10/2005 5:14 pm

of course u did the right thing,,,,,u are to smart to let anyone take advantage,,,i miss being with u....i hope u contact me

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