A piece of advice....  

hotandhorny107 58F
339 posts
10/17/2005 1:32 am

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A piece of advice....

One evening, I had dinner with a man I met from this site, whom I have been seeing off and on for a while. Nothing serious since neither one of us wants that. Anyway, for some unknown reason his performance level was not quite up to par. Not problem for me, since he made it a point to see that I was satisfied. However it was irritating that he was determined to in any way satisfy himself.Now I can understand and relate to that completely but it got to the point that I was irritated (mentally/emotionally) and uncomfortable physically. Not that I did not try the "usual" methods to help the situation, but the response was only slight. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't.
So why am I here? Just need to tell the men that if for some reason junior is not quite up to snuff, don't sweat it and for crying out loud, don't keep trying. My partner tonight kept trying and trying, and after about an hour or so, finally achieved a partial erection and proceeded to do the deed. By that time I was getting very irritated and did not enjoy it as I usually do.
No woman that I know ever bitches about performance issues, knowing full well that junior sometimes can be uncooperative. There is more than one way to satisfy the woman you are with and sometimes all it takes is cuddle time. I for one enjoy good conversation, curled up together in bed. So listen up guys if it happens it happens. Don't push the issue. In my opinion it is more embarrassing if you keep trying and end up with a less than firm ending.

hotandhorny107 58F

10/17/2005 10:45 am

Thanks for mentioning that part agoigo, because I did forget to mention that I tried various things that usually do work to no avail. I honestly think he was simply too tired from a long day or the great meal we had. It certainly was not from lack of trying on either of our parts. I will amend the blog to include that

AmberSolaire 42M

10/19/2005 7:30 pm

Isnt that why women have vibrators in their bedside draws?

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AlbertPrince 57M

10/20/2005 3:27 am

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likembig22004 61M

10/25/2005 6:10 am

complex??? the only complex you'll ever recieve from me.... could we please take a break and then continue until I wear you out,,,,then we'll spoon and cuddle....interested??

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
10/31/2005 1:30 pm

great post Hot

i encourage men to give their partners at least one night of love making where they choose to not have an orgasm and focus only on making their partner happy

as men we are way to focused on orgasms ... orgasms are great and should be sought after but they shouldn't be the only goal of sex between partners who are friends or lovers ... that would take care of the problem for men that can't achieve an orgasm on any given occasion ... and hopefully both partners could still enjoy the experience

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