The Problem With Guys  

hotNhorny5000 37F
53 posts
1/26/2006 1:29 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The Problem With Guys

If you treat him nicely, he says you are IN LOVE with him;
If you don't, he says you are PROUD.

If you dress nicely, he says you are trying to LURE him;
If you don't, he says you DON'T CARE about pleasing him.

If you argue with him, he says you are STUBBORN;
If you keep quiet, he says you have no BRAINS.

If you are smarter than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's smarter than you, he is GREAT.

If you don't love him, he tries to POSSESS you;
If you love him, he will try to LEAVE you.

If you don't kiss him, he says you don't love him or you are NARROW minded;
If you do, he says you are CHEAP and easy to get.

If you tell him your problems, he says you are TROUBLESOME;
If you don't, he says that you don't TRUST him.

If you scold him, you are like a NANNY to him;
If he scolds you, it is because he CARES for you.

If you break your promise, you cannot be TRUSTED;
If he breaks his, he is because he was FORCED to do so.

If you smoke, you are BAD girl;
If he smokes, he is GENTLEMEN.

If you do well in your exams/work, he says it's LUCK;
If he does well, it's because he has BRAINS.

If you hurt him, you are CRUEL;
If he hurts you, you are too SENSITIVE & sooo hard to please.

If you show this to guys, they will swear that it's not true....... but if you don't, they will say you are selfish.

salamii6699 38M
63 posts
1/27/2006 3:56 am

its all true. ahem nearly all.

it makes life all the fun and interesting. the imperfections!!

scrub56 60M

1/29/2006 6:56 pm

AS a male leaning hard on 50, I have seen this type of dual standard all too often. The cause, beyond basic immaturity is a lack of one's taking personal responsibility in their own lives. When we men learn that we can make a mistake, learn from it, APOLOGISE when indicated, THEN we can earn the true respect from others, even the women that we secretly feel intimidated by! Trust my experience, it's well worthwhile.

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