Life is nothing more than a game isn't it?  

hornyhornysandy 41F
67 posts
1/10/2006 3:18 am

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Life is nothing more than a game isn't it?


The reason why ppl who have read my blog could not comment was becos I din allow it... LOL... but I thought what the heck... as if I really cared if anyone has anything nasty to say....

you meet someone, you sense that spark, but you hold on to your feelings cos just in case you get caught in the whole mambo jambo overrated thing called a relationship...

you overcome the fears and apprehension that you have and decide to go for the kill, and what do you know, it is actually working in your favour!...

The lightheadedness of a new found love is always sweet, gentle. Warm fuzzzy feelings run deep. It stays that way for a period of time...

Then there is only 2 ways to go from there... Either you take the next step and leap into the great unknown or you take a hike. Simple... no other ways... doesn't matter if its the gal or the guy who calls the shot... the shot will be called and a decision has to be made... to proceed one step further with the relationship or to end it...

If you end it, you will start over from scratch, you meet someone, .....

If everything is just perfectly fine and if you take one step further.... that's where the fun begins... the excitement of the proposal, no matter how you decide to pop the question, it will be popped... she will start tearing and she says "yes"... that one word you have been meaning to hear... you are so elated and happy and you are the man...

From that point on, couple of possible scenerios could happen:
1. The weddding plans go like the way you planned. Hooray!
2. The weddding plans go like the way you planned, but there are little areas where you give in to her cos you love her and want her to be happy on her wedding day.
3.The weddding plans go like the way you planned but she is beginning to turn into an obsessed perfectionist, who incidently just surfaced, but ou give in to her cos you love her and want her to be happy on her wedding day.
4. The weddding plans go like the way you planned but she is beginning to turn into monster who wants everything done her way and she really doesn't care if you are agreeable or not but you give in to her cos you love her and want her to be happy on her wedding day.

On the wedding day, whether everything went perfect or if it has some or loads of glitches, it realy doesn't matter cos now she is yours.... and yours alone...

After the wedding, the honeymoon, 7/14/21 days of sheer bliss, so totally in love are the two of you and the only thing on your minds is to make passionate love all night, all day, you can't get your hands off each other, the gentle pecks on the cheeks, the intertwine of your fingers, the rubbing of toes, that feeling of being in love is so overwhelming that you just can't put any words to describe it.... (perhaps the lyrics of some song...LOL )

With all that done, it's time to embark on the journey that you so willingly said "I do" to...

Then you realise that hey! The utilities, housing loan, car loan, telephone bill has yet to be paid... the clothes have yet to be washed or iron, the floors need to be swept/vaccumed/mopped.... on top of that you realise that hey! I haven't made love for 3 days... and you hit the sack...

The routine sets in.. and the frequency of making love and dwindled cos you have to work late, are just too tired/stressed/whatever....

Then on fine day, before you know it, sex is a weekly ot bimonthly affair, and you ask yourself, where's all the passion gone?... This is the best bit.. the excuses set in, fingers start pointing on why the marriage isn't working....questions of "Did I marry the right person" now floods your mind....

And you start searching for the "right" one....

Hey... now doesn't that sound familiar?... the search begins again... perhaps a little different, with a twist of lemon... but the search begins again...

Think about it, isn't this like with everything in life?... not just relationships, even with jobs, friends... you name it, it's like this... only the circumstances is different.

Life... isn't it nothing more than a game?... but there's a catch 22 on it, there is no restart button.....

mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
1/10/2006 4:07 am

Well.. it was a choice in a game to give us a chance to comment...

LOL... complains are human nature...
how to make it better is not our nature...
What are you going to do next to better your future?
Life is full of questions and sometimes no answers...

Life has not only have cold reboot (electronic terms) but also warm reboot (start from one but memories still stay intact). So life do have restarts.. Just what type of restarts?

Isn't finding someone new is a restart too?


rm_lovesex7200 44M

1/10/2006 4:29 pm

First to "mr simply me"....... To me,finding someone new is not really a restart, cause u have not ended your last run yet....... at least from where most of the extra married affairs r happening here. Unless if u r seperated or divorce then u have indeed ended it. But thats just my thinking la.

Well reading from sandy's post, think most of singapore couples r facing that situation. I know i'm facing it too.

Life is a game, either u play it alone or u have a partner to play with. either ways u have to enjoy the game. it does get boring in times, thats when u start to find other partners so that u can enjoy life again, when your present partner is taking u for granted.

Some will find the new partner better then the old, divorce will set in.

Some will find that the old partner is still better, the affair stop.

The game will only stop when u die.


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