Why do people shy away when...  

hornygnome200 34M
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11/11/2005 12:35 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why do people shy away when...

I have wanted to explore the swinger lifestyle for a while now. With my past relationships, my partners have not been open to trying mfm, exhibitionism, video taping/taking pictures, or joining/watching other couples. I have always respected their opinions and boundaries and have never pushed any of them into something they didn't feel comfortable doing. I have been on this site for a few weeks now and find people stay away when I tell them that I am new to all of this. I am always honest and upfront in everything that I write (what's the point in lying) and tell the couple/person that I am chatting with that I respect their boundaries (I think that is the only to have an enjoyable experience). Why is it hard to find people that are willing to welcome a new comer? What were other peoples "first time" experiences?
Good luck to everyone.


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