oral directions (yah or nay)  

honeycomb1974 44M/42F
133 posts
4/26/2006 9:57 am

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oral directions (yah or nay)

I seen here on a post that one man got upset with his wife giving him directions on how to give her oral pleasure. I myself feel every women likes things different, so I do tend to tell men how I want to be touch and licked, and so forth.I am bi and I know I like it when my partners tell me how they like it. It is for you partners pleasure so shouldn't you want to know what it takes to please them? So my question is does it upset you to get directions from your partner on what they want orally?
I like it when a partner tells me what they want.
It's ok for them to direct me,but I prefer doing it on my own.
I get upset, but I do it anyway.
I get up put my clothes on and leave.
I don't need directions.

rm_shaveclean2 56M/42F
691 posts
4/26/2006 10:44 am

I prefer that He tells me what he wants....I would not want to make an ass of myself!!!

G the female 1/2 of Shaveclean2


honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:23 pm:
I don't think you can make an ass out of yourself, it just might not be as good. But as I always say any head is better than no head.lol The worst you have had was really not that bad. Runt

daman080808 43M
488 posts
4/26/2006 11:18 am

i think its sexxy and turns me on when my partner tells me what to do, not that i feel i need directions, who does, but it also can verbalize what your partner is feeling....

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:27 pm:
I think it is a turn on to nothing beats hearing your mate tell you how well you are doing! Honey

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
4/26/2006 12:59 pm

Being somewhat inexperienced i'm not ashamed to admit that I need all the help I can get. Now if I could only find a teacher. Shortdogg

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:30 pm:
Just keep taking notes you are doing fine! Honey

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
4/26/2006 7:49 pm

I like being the boss!

Purry {=}


honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:32 pm:
You can be our boss anytime! Please tell us what you want. Your wish is our command! Honey and Runt

sexyboytoy2283 33M

4/26/2006 8:27 pm

I have no problem taking directions on giving oral to my girlfriend, because it is a big turn for me. But if a girl gives me oral I like to give some directions on how that should be done.

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:34 pm:
I love a man who can take charge and tell me what he wants! Honey

digdug41 49M

4/27/2006 9:18 am

show me so I can make ya climb the wall all the more easier

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:35 pm:
I'm sure you can get the job done just fine! Honey

ribby2006 49M

4/27/2006 2:35 pm

It's great when a woman feels comfortable enouph to tell you how she likes it. I do however love it when she shows it. When she arcs her back and locks her knees together around your head. Starts twisting you this way and that. Even when I can't breath, I just take a deep breath and ride it out. Now thats what I call fun.

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:38 pm:
If she is doing all of that, you don,t need anymore directions. Honey

rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
4/27/2006 3:05 pm

Well, given that none of us come with an instruction manual, it would therefore seem sensible to both give and receive directions in pleasure seeking.
I would, however like to point out that it also comes down to how those directions are issued as to just how well they will be received. If you are polite and diplomatic, you are more likely to have your partner hit just the right spot for you, than if you yell out commands like on a parade ground.
A No Brainer one would assume, but we are talking about people here and nothing can be assumed, because people are like that. The minute you assume they will do something, bang they will go and do the opposite or a divergent reaction. As a species, we're nuts.

Now whilst directing your lover in how to do things the way you like it, is good, there also needs to be some flexibility, to allow for experimentation. After all, a different approach may get you there faster or with a better result. Now wouldn't you want to discover that?


honeycomb1974 replies on 4/27/2006 3:43 pm:
I always love to experiment, we should be know as sex scientist! Any one else what to join in on the experiment? Honey and Runt

elysianpleasure 47M

4/27/2006 8:51 pm

I like it when they tell me what they want... it's fun to experiment... but you want to get it right and make sure both people are enjoying themselves.

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/28/2006 4:01 pm:
experimenting is fun, but there is something about hearing them tell you what they want. I'm like you, I want to make sure everyone enjoys their self regardless of the number involved. I've been playing with this body for along time I know what I like and how I like it!

sugarbabyhhh 43F

4/29/2006 6:59 am

i like it when he takes my head in his hands and just works it any way he wants... from nice slow shallow strokes to a hard, fast, deep throat face fuck!!!

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/30/2006 9:19 am:
Oh yeah, there is nothing better than a good face fuck! Honey

tucsonletsplay 58M

4/29/2006 7:46 am

Oh yes, please tell me how you like it, if you're enjoying it, I'm enjoying it.


honeycomb1974 replies on 4/30/2006 9:21 am:
That is how we feel, we like to know we are doing what ever it takes to please our partners! Honey and Runt

rm_skyeone2 64M/45F
7186 posts
4/30/2006 6:43 am

Anything other than asking how your partner likes it, is just not worth it. How can you please someone if you don't ask what pleases them? Yes you can figure it out by trial and error, but if you do that, you run the risk of never learning nor pleasing your partner. Sheesh, whoever gets upset by being told how to make their lover go over the edge really needs to learn what it means to have meaningful sex.


Blessed Be

honeycomb1974 replies on 4/30/2006 9:25 am:
We agree, if you are not satisfying your partner than there is no sense in doing it at all. Honey and Runt

lostboyscout77 39M/37F

4/30/2006 9:32 am

I like to explore and find out what my partner likes. It is a turn on for me. I don't mind directions but finding out on your own is half the fun. Then you get to see thier facial expessions and get to know them on a whole new level.

i_12_lickyou 55M
10 posts
5/4/2006 3:54 am

bit of both...like to explore, but "need" to get it right for max pleasure too...and its nice to be told to lick pussy LOL

rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
5/10/2006 6:54 am

I love it when they tell me and talk dirty.... no matter how refined a woman will get down and dirty as they get closer to orgasm!

alamo1235 58M
995 posts
5/16/2006 8:48 pm

I welcome the directions about what a woman desires orally. Each person is unique and knows what they like and I love to try and please them, I also try new things to see if they enjoy. If they do not, that is cool.

But I am all ears and will do my best to follow their requests.

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