Men and Women - double standards and things that make you go hmmmm.......  

hih77429 45F
18 posts
5/2/2006 4:24 pm

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Men and Women - double standards and things that make you go hmmmm.......


Some these questions have been around since the beginning of time. Some are generalized on purpose, so don't leave a comment saying it doesn't apply to you. If you think of some more items, post a comment and share with us. Again, it's my blog and I get to say what I want within reason, right??

Why is it that if men have multiple sex parnters they are studs, but if a woman does it she's a tramp???

Why is it that men want to put their dicks in your ass, but the thought of having one in their ass frightens most men?

Why don't we marry people that have all the things we want versus marrying someone, then getting someone on the side for the freaky stuff?

If a man is sexually aggressive, he's doing his job, if a woman is sexually aggressive, she must be easy.

Why won't a guy buy the cow if he gets the milk for free? We get the milk for free and we buy the guy, and the bacon, eggs, and loads of other stuff when they move in with us and eat all of our food. LOL

Why is it that we can see full or female nudity on TV all the time, but never full male nudity?

rm_GenuineTaste 51F
261 posts
5/2/2006 4:48 pm

These statements have pondered in many females mind for many years. I've just learned to join the men. Why should they have all the fun?
What one says about me doesn't phase me none. Perhaps if peeps spent less time speaking of what other are doing and more time doing the do. We'd have less sexually frustrated peeps. Wondering why some woman are having all the fun. Which I had some one to knock some boots with tonight. I'd send him home before he had a chance to eat all my food.

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn


rm_tetrault25 36M

5/2/2006 4:57 pm

Questions for the ages


Djeeper1987 47M

5/2/2006 5:00 pm

Quite a list of questions. I have to say it does make you think a bit. I am going to try to answer carefully and truthfully.

Why is it that if men have multiple sex parnters they are studs, but if a woman does it she's a tramp??? Its true, we live in a society that see women having multiple parnters and is considered a slut. However I don't agree with that at all. Men and Women should be equal as to how many people they can sleep with. Is that so wrong?

Why is it that men want to put their dicks in your ass, but the thought of having one in their ass frightens most men? I personally never stuck my dick in my women's ass. So I can't really answer this one objectively.

Why don't we marry people that have all the things we want versus marrying someone, then getting someone on the side for the freaky stuff?
huh? Are you saying marrying someone you love that has everything you hope for, but not someone who is not really right for you yet you still marry?

If a man is sexually aggressive, he's doing his job, if a woman is sexually aggressive, she must be easy.
I hear that all the time. Women being labeled as easy. They tell me hey go get her, she will spread her legs for anyone. I actually don't care if she is easy or not. I am sexually aggressive with a woman I am crazy about, and the women I know who are sexually aggressive are not easy yet they love to fuck. This is s subject worth talking about for while....don't you agree?

Why won't a guy buy the cow if he gets the milk for free? We get the milk for free and we buy the guy, and the bacon, eggs, and loads of other stuff when they move in with us and eat all of our food. LOL

Much easier that way. LOL

Why is it that we can see full or female nudity on TV all the time, but never full male nudity? I sure down the road it will become common as seeing a naked woman on T.V.
What I have noticed lately on some shows or movies naked men are coming out of the closet. You just have to find them.

Carpe Diem


hih77429 45F

5/4/2006 7:44 am

Let me reply to some of these....

I'd send him home before he had a chance to eat all my food.
I don't mean one night stands. Not only do I not feed them. I don't bring them to my house.
Why don't we marry people that have all the things we want versus marrying someone, then getting someone on the side for the freaky stuff?
huh? Are you saying marrying someone you love that has everything you hope for, but not someone who is not really right for you yet you still marry?
I mean when guys get caught up in the Madonna/whore thing and marry someone that they think is "good wife material" and that "Mom would approve of" then stray becasue they can't get what they need sexually. My question is can't you find the two together? Or some folks don't even ask their partner to do soemthing new. They think the person they love and cherish and loves them unconditionally will look at them in a new light if they find out they're freaky??!!??

This is s subject worth talking about for while....don't you agree?
LOL

What I have noticed lately on some shows or movies naked men are coming out of the closet. You just have to find them.
What shows am I missing?? Full frontal nudity or just ass shots??????


strokeit51 65M

5/6/2006 6:53 pm

Perceptive questions, difficult to answer. Undoubtedly because of the many double standards that pervade our society and discourage people from thinking of others as people and not "Merely female" or "merely male". Men can sometimes be utterly ridiculous, expect a woman to be submissive but also want to be ordered around by a surrogate mother figure. Problem is objectivying the other, failing to see a unique individual.

Frank (strokeit51)


rm_LovelyBlkDic 46M

5/9/2006 10:12 am

I'm sexually aggressive and if she is sexually aggressive, then I'm in love.


hih77429 45F

5/19/2006 10:22 pm

It's been a few days. Let me spend some time here and try to answer theses questions.

1. Why is it that women think it is OK to interrupt a man when he is doing something he likes (watching sports or an action movie), but don't want to talk to you and tell you why she's mad? (Is there a presumption of clairvoyance in men?)

I love sports and will tell you to hush so I can hear. And I have no problem saying when and why I'm mad.

2. Why is it that women can carry around a 15 pound baby all day, but can't lift a bag of groceries out of the car?

We LOVE the baby and the weight is distributed better. The groceries hang from the hand or have to be lifted in a certain manner very different from a baby. The baby fits the natural body pattern while the edge of the box in the bag pokes you in the hip or breast?

3. Why is it women can have "ladies night" out with their girlfriends, but are immediately jealous when we want to have guys night out? And what does a history of going to strip clubs when we were single have to do with anything??

Cause on girls' night out - we bash you guys, talk about sex, and check out other guys. Men may bash us women, have sex, and check out of a motel.

4. Why is it only my hair that clogs the shower drain? After all, I don't even shave in the shower!

I wax!!! LOL

5. What's wrong with anal sex? You like me to put my dick in one hole, why not the other one? It's only a couple of inches away anyway!

Cause it's made for crap to come out of and not for crap to go in. And I am a clean person, but somehow it seems unsanitary and makes me squirm and it's a deal breaker.


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