Why not be Real????  

highstepper41 59M
4 posts
10/26/2005 2:18 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why not be Real????

To the readers of this blog, I would like to propose a question to you. Why not be real??? You don't have to mis-reperesent yourselves. If you are 5'5", don't say you are 5'11" or 6'0". If you are looking for a relationship, don't say, "I'm looking for casual Sex". Be true to what you really want and it will come to you that much quicker. If you build brick walls in front of what you really want or to who you really are, don't complain if what you really want never gets to you. Why not be Real????


highstepper41 59M
15 posts
10/27/2005 8:35 am

Hello tigerlillie28,

I'm glad to see someone is true to themselves. This is not a gender based question, more of a human being type question. All of us are guilty of this at some point or another. I think we only become cognizantly aware of it when it is done to us. [post127062]


CBabyTwo3 57F

11/5/2005 10:31 pm

Hello, Histepper41... Your blog is not only timely, but extremely well written. It's always nice to see a man of intellect. I don't expect this site to be filled with rocket scientists, but education is not something that should be overlooked, nor taken lightly.

Now, onto your blog... I totally agree with you on people being real. Life's too short for all of the game playing. Not only am I real about my needs, wants, and desires, I'm very upfront. I'm not going to take a guy through a ton of emails, or lots of unnecessary conversation knowing there's nothing there. If I'm not feeling him, he'll know it right away.

For the most part, men have appreciated that in me. There's a lot of cool guys on this site. But, every once in a while I run into a knucklehead. You know, someone who wears their feelings on their sleeves and can't handle the truth, so they say I come off too strong, or otherwise trip because I've declined their invitation.

Men say they want women to be upfront and honest. Yet, when you do, ya get persecuted. *L* But, I won't stop being me. I'm very polite and compassionate and I treat people the way I'd prefer to be treated. And, since there's nothing wrong with that, I'll be continuing along those lines.


sexgoddess2669 47F

11/16/2005 1:50 pm

hello highstepper this is goddess, just hittin ya up lettin ya know that everything is everything and sometimes a person that doesn't update his/ her info isn't necessarily telling a lie but we as openminded people as im sure you are thickness understand that even though people find love on this site as well as a good fuck realize that it's only entertainment and not to be taken as seriously please have an open mind to this site not everybody lies but those that do have security issues but it's better to take the time to know someone...cause what a person write down don't mean a hill of beans it's when you meet a person is when you get the real...


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