Cyber Sex Sucks  

rm_heylips 50M/47F
76 posts
7/18/2006 7:56 am

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10/24/2006 2:13 pm

Cyber Sex Sucks


I will admit to an occasional trist with the web cam. I have gotten of with a couple hundred strangers watching. It is a turn on. I have also tuned into web cams to see a guy shoot his load. These are fun pastimes when I am bored.

I would much rather meet in person and get real satisfaction. Everything else is simply empty and misleading.

I was interested in a guy from out of town at one point. Our schedules were both busy so we chatted and emailed and did web cam for a few months before we met. We had done this so much that we thought we knew what to expect from the meeting. When we did finally meet, it seemed as though it would be exactly what the months of chatting had promised. There had been no lying he was who he claimed to be as was I. The problem was that we had built up such expectaions of each other that the reality was no where near the fantasy. We had sex and it was good but we both left disappointed because we had played the moment over and over in our minds to the point that our expectations were simply unrealistic and unattainable.

So now I try not to get into the long term cyber relations before meeting someone. I know that it is necesary to lay a little ground work but I think that the best way to have truely mind blowing sex is to meet and then take it from there.

It isn't that I am against cyber sex or chat it just hasn't been successful for me.

rm_ORB486 56M

7/18/2006 10:05 am

I am with you. In person is hotter. Kudos to your hubby who lets you get your wet abalone smacked.


CB_2 51F

7/18/2006 10:16 am

Heylips, I have tried a number of variations of cyber sex and I'd agree with you in principle. In fact, I've just posted a more detailed comment on my own blog on this subject.

Blogito ergo sum.


rm_ORB486 56M

7/18/2006 10:25 am

Hey, would you consider a nude beach as a place to exhibit and flirt? Is there one in Rochester? Inquiring minds. I'm from Calif where there are many hot ones, so wondering what goes on here in world-renowned Rochester.


RakerCalliRough 49M
98 posts
7/19/2006 1:24 am

Heylips...
I think you have two aspects of sexuality within your statement. The first being sex of the mind, which as we all know is a very necessary aspect to build desire, and fantasy. Both of which I love...
The second is the cyber sex...
Getting off with him online was the satisfaction of the build up you created. Likely if you had not done that, and built up the passion withgout getting off, and kept a few surprises, the actual meeting would have been much better.

I prefer skin to skin, and would loev that with you by the way, but on occasion over the y ears I have met some wonderfully sexy people that lived half the world away, but connected with deeply in mind. For those, the cyber was delicious...

One last note....I woudl love to be a part of one of your sessions of showing off live on cam. Thought of others watching us enjoy...has me hard here now.

Comon, take me!


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