RE: "No strings attached" or "NSA"  

heteromaniac 44M
8 posts
2/7/2006 9:03 am

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RE: "No strings attached" or "NSA"

I was reading a blog stating that when a man says NSA, it's like an instant turn-off!
But I must ask......Don't you think "no strings attached" is a safety net? It says, "Hey, no stalkers over here!", "I won't have a ring ready after our 1st encounter, looking for your hand in marriage.", or it could mean, "I'm not trying to change your lifestyle, so don't mess with mine!". We all know that the reality of things are such that they are ALWAYS strings attached!.....even if it is just one really thin string. And we all know that deep down we want to be loved and we want a "" soulmate, but until the stars align themselves properly and time and circumstance decide to collaborate themselves in a fashion that creates that euphoric event(Hopefully, we won't fuck it up when it happens!), what does one do?........... My answer is, you entertain yourself so you don't die from boredom or solitude or penis/vagina back-up(hurts like hell, ...then you die! So I heard!)!
I digress!
It's kinda like a woman saying, "Not interested!... before you even get a sentence out." You know you are not interested in meeting anyone new, or at least not this guy.....but if the environment creates itself in a natural way way, you might be very interested. If I approached a woman and before I could get my name out, she replies, "So, I'm looking for a boyfriend and I noticed you weren't wearing a ring!"....I'd run like hell! ...So would you! So in my evaluation, NSA is a very safe thing to say, but I'm inviting all commentary on the subject!

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
2/11/2006 4:24 am

NSA usually means one night only. I think it is a statment already closed to possibities.

Secondly, we have a lot of men to pick and choose from -- obviously we are going to pick men that say things that rev our engines (be they mental, emotional, physical, spiritual).

In any case, no relationship has strings attached unless parties agree to those strings, because we all know we can walk away anytime we want. Therefore, it is redundant ... why bother saying it?

There was a time on this site when all I wanted was to romp ... all the guys -- without exception -- that I met that said NSA on their profile were bland and of no interest anyway.

Now I pick people with profiles that really use creative language to express themselves. I have had much more success meeting the kind of guys I like that way... some of those have also only be one night, but it was more fun!

[blog freelove999]

heteromaniac 44M
17 posts
2/14/2006 8:03 am

Wow! I really feel you on that! Very interesting point of you! Thanks for taking the time to read my thoughts! Hope you found an interesting point of view in my posts, as I did yours! Peace!

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