Dirty Little Secrets  

hereforyou6217 43M
376 posts
5/28/2005 8:07 am

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Dirty Little Secrets

How many people out there are completely honest when it comes to writing their profiles? I feel like I've been lucky so far, finding people who have more or less represented themselves in a relatively truthful way, but I've heard so many stories now about people who really misrepresent themselves that it really can kind of make you nervous, you know? And I'm a pretty trusting guy!

It's interesting, though, because just the fact of being on this site is such a dishonest thing for some people. Many of us are not being truthful to partners or loved ones (or not-so-loved ones, as the case may be) about what we're doing here. I'm certainly not going to judge them, since I'm one of those people, and I certainly have some disappointment with myself about that. But I'm here nonetheless, and I'm doing my best to be honest and forthcoming about who I am. It doesn't seem to be helping, but I'm going to continue that way, just because that's who I am. And who I am has gotten me some friends and experiences that I won't be forgetting anytime soon.

So here's the question, for those of you who happen across this page in a revelatory sort of mood: What's your dirty little secret?

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
5/28/2005 10:04 am

I am 100% honest in my profile.
I want people to respond to me only if I match their criteria.
I do not want to waste anybody's time, no do I want anybody wasting my time, as my "free" time is very limited.
There is somebody for everybody...

rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/28/2005 6:06 pm

What do you expect those who answer to say? "I eat my toenail clippings"
Oops, I guess I said too much.

hereforyou6217 43M
912 posts
5/28/2005 9:27 pm

Heck, that'll do. Heh. I try not to have many expectations. That's what's fun about this. I just want to see what people say. Eating toenail clippings? Are they yummy?

Of course, I chewed my fingernails for YEARS before I quit recently, so I guess I already have an idea.

rm_Curious25124 37F
2 posts
5/30/2005 6:23 pm

Though I don't have a picture up I believe that I've been as honest as I can be about myself in my profile. In it I let people know that I am a BIG GIRL and that I'm CUTE. As far as my BBW status that goes without explaining, it's my CUTENESS that needs justification. In my mind I am merely cute. I want people to know that "hey, you will not puke when you see me" despite the fact that I don't have a picture up yet. I use the term CUTE loosly though, b/c everyones cute-o-meter doesn't work with the same gauge.

To some I may NOT be MISS UNIVERSE ( and I know this), but to others I may. It all depends. My point is by using the word cute in my profile It is intended to direct the potential winker or emailer who's interested in meeting me to judge for themselves.

I mean what do you really want? b/c if it's all about looks, trust and believe a picture of my genitals really will not tell you how attractive I am body or personallity wise.

Regardless, wouldn't you fuck me anyway if the invite goes out and I turn out to be more than descent?

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