what happens when you go out of town?  

henryandjune 45M/46F
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4/21/2005 7:48 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

what happens when you go out of town?

Well I (June) go out of town in less than a month... and Henry and I have "discussed" having sex with others w/out each other... it was interesting.

It seems that jealousy is the main factor... if I get laid out of the country and he doesn't its going to be a problem as I see his reaction... and I can't say how I will react, since I’ve never been in this situation before.

So we are supposed to "notify" each other immediately if we get laid, etc... so the other can race out and get laid themselves without guilt it seems. Ultimately it seems this would null the jealousy...

We laid (giggle) out the ground rules and know where each other stand, but i have this vague sense that it really is NOT ok with Henry. I am likely to find a willing male that is not in the off-limits category, will Henry find the same in a female?

Well it is stressing me out. Any suggestions?

44 posts
7/26/2005 8:41 pm

if it is not even ok in the planning stages and the though alone is stressing you out and causing him to get jealous then it would be best to keep things the way they are an only play together or however you are doing it currently that eliminates the jealousy and stress.
Think about it like this, what is your marriage worth to you, is an unbalanced anonymous fuck worth the ruination of your lives?
You have more growing together to do before you should even consider risking the life you have built with eachother on "flings"
no man in the world can compete with a woman as far as getting sex whenever they want it,and if that will be a problem because you will get more guys than he will get girls ( and believe me he already knows it) then don't do it.

have a stress free evening you two.

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