Hot? Or not?  

helga_hansen 49F  
3122 posts
11/13/2005 2:31 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Hot? Or not?

I'm always slightly bemused by men who place my profile on their Hotlist and never attempt to contact me any other way.

While I am flattered that someone has taken the trouble to "hotlist" me, I do wonder what purpose it serves for the person doing the hotlisting?

I have the same bemusement at guys who wink at me... especially if they are premium members, as this means they could email me to let me know they are interested.

I must admit that I may seem a bit stand-offish in my profile, but there's no point in luring you in, only to say "sorry, I'm not really interested". I don't want to be seen as a time-waster, and hope that by telling you what I'm looking for, I'm saving you time and effort.

I just wish standard members could see some part of Ideal Person...


Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥


KMA5 40M
771 posts
11/13/2005 2:50 pm

I think the winks are to say that theu still appreciatw you, even though they don't match what you are looking for. No point humoing your leg if you aren't interested.
The holtlist thing... i dunno. Do you have any naughty pics on your profile?


KMA5 40M
771 posts
11/13/2005 2:50 pm

I think the winks are to say that theu still appreciatw you, even though they don't match what you are looking for. No point humping your leg if you aren't interested.
The holtlist thing... i dunno. Do you have any naughty pics on your profile?


bardicman 50M

11/13/2005 2:52 pm

Here is a possible explantion for you from a man.

When I am searching profiles I hot list several women that I want to go back and take a closer look at. After further reading I may find that I am not compatable with the hotlisted person so I just move on and not try to contact someone who is looking for something I am definately not.



I am not dead yet


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
11/13/2005 7:09 pm

i get the same thing, added to hotlists and winks, but no email. it is puzzling. i have winked back at the really good ones. sometimes they follow-up with a response, sometimes they don't. who knows?

snatch


rm_Balanon2 48M
193 posts
11/14/2005 1:51 am

When I started out, I used the hotlist to keep of track of people that I wanted to find out more about in addition to those that I had already contacted. Then, I figured out that they knew I had put them on my hotlist. As a result, I stopped using the hotlist completely because I wasn't sure how women reacted to the listing and I don't think everyone even responds the same way. I never received positive results from anyone that went on my hotlist. Conversely, several people that never went on the hotlist I've actually met. Not sure if there is correlation, but I'm using the list anymore. Also, never been on it myself so why stroke other people's egos


SassyBoyBlue 66M

11/14/2005 4:18 am

Wish I could see more of ya too..but to upgrade just now....I'm still pretty new at this sort of thing. Don't want to offend. Love those bras you have and great looking nipples As for hotlists? Not sure I'd want to profile people like that.


bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
11/14/2005 5:28 pm

Helga - I often hotlist women I find attractive by initial pic or the scant info afforded a standard member.

I did buy a silver when I first joined but was not all that impressed with A F Fs service

As a standard I find it is a way to let someone know I do find them of interest not having the benefit of e-mail. It is also a way to encourage their checking out my blog and getting to know each other a bit.

I hope I've helped you think it through.

Bull


Priapeo 46M

11/19/2005 3:28 pm

I too, used to use hotlist like bookmarks, when I made extended researches and got a dozen interesting females to vex later on.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience


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