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hurrah!!!!!!!!!
Posted:Sep 14, 2006 7:56 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 9:50 am
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Hi readers! Been a while since ive been on AdultFriendFinder, wonder if anyone missed us on cam? Ah well, anyhoo ,,,,,i finally got my last operation on the 19th june.A new nipple for right breast was constructed by rolling skin up etc, it looked awful at first but its flattened out now and im so chuffed wi the result. The right breast wasnt implanted thank fuck, he lifted it then replaced nipple higher so they both look quite pert. Not TOO pert tho.t'would look silly on a 54yr old.
He did a fantstic job AND im up 2 cup sizes, from a 36a to a 36c, yippeeee!!!

They wont look exactly similar but one cant have everythin can one lol. A little down side is that i have to wear firm support bra for 24/7 for 6 months ( well 3 months now) so that the right breast falls into a proper breast shape. Unfortunately i have to wear it in bed too, again a small price to pay for my life eh?

Will put more info in later as ive other things to do on comp. Hope you are all havin fun whichever way u swing!! Happy huntin! xxxx
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impatient!!!
Posted:Mar 15, 2006 6:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 4:51 pm
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Hello again folks!

I've been feeling impatient since February as my last operation is due and i still have no idea when it'll be. The plastic surgeon i saw in June 2005 said it would be around 8 months before i get a date. Well, its now over 8 months and im gettin antsy waiting. Silly really, after all i've been through you'd think i could wait patiently, seeing as this is the last one.
I just want to have 2 normal looking boobs so i can show them BOTH off. Also its a pain having to wear "cleavage enhancer" to balance them. Also it looks odd cos right boob has no nipple, that'll be gettin constructed at the same time i get my implant in left boob. There are still days when i forget about it completely then it hits me all over again. That also makes me feel apprehensive as stress has a physical effect on the body, including negative thinking.Having said that, i dont get worked up so much about the little things and try and just deal with life as it comes. When i read in the newspaper about people who have/had cancer i totally emphasise with them, nobody knows what its like till they've been there themselves. What the effect is on the patient and their family and friends. Anyhoo, i have no option but to doddle on as life isnt a rehearsal, this is the real thing and we ALL fall off the planet eventually.
Nowt we can do about it so no point in fretting, none of us are getting out of this alive, so we will get peace eventually!! lol
That's all for now folks, thanks for reading my Blogs and i hope it helps some of you if you are having a tough time coping with any difficulties. It does get better, things always change one way or another so keep your chin up and have a happy long healthy life to you all!!

bye for now and happy huntin!
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YOU ARROGANT BASTARDS!!
Posted:Dec 16, 2005 8:05 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 9:51 am
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Seems there are a lot of guys who seem to get off on insulting us women when we're camming. So do we ignore them and let them watch as well as the others who are more respectful and polite and undemanding?
I wouldnt let anyone talk to me like that in my own house so why should i let them get off with it? After all they are virtually in OUR house watching OUR CAM WITH OUR PERMISSION. This does NOT give them the right to abuse us verbally or otherwise!
The upside is i ENJOY tickin em off when everyone else can hear!! If they still get off after i've had my say well good on them.
Probably cant have a REAL LIVE CONVERSATION with a REAL LIVE WOMANin front of them.
My friend is right, you poor saps have to get your jollies somehow, and for that i pity you all, i really do, we all need someone.
As for the names we've been called, we've HEARD THEM ALL BEFORE!!! None of them have come out with ANYTHING original yet. AND we are the ones who have a stable long term relationship, methinks jealousy is somewher at the root of it.
Or they have a warped view of women for some psychological reason.
Ah well such is life!!
SINGLE GUYS DO NOT WASTE OUR TIME OR YOURS SENDING INVITES COMMENTS E MAILS AS WE WILL DECLINE DECLINE DECLINE UNTIL WE WANT TO MEET GUYS!!!
Its a pisser when we have to waste time doin this cos none of you think to look at our PROFILE, its there for a REASON!
One silly sod thought it was funny when i chastised him, as he was using his mates computer.Doesnt seem like much of a friend if he's letting him get the blame does he?
So far we havent reported anybody but we will one day if you get us,especially ME, in the wrong mood so BE WARNED!!
To all you nice decent "normal" people (who dont really exist, we all have our little quirks) thanks for watching and being pleasant. We enjoy chatting to people like you very much.
Well i've blown off some steam so ta ta for now and happy huntin!xxxxxxxxxxx
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impatience!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted:Oct 31, 2005 8:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 9:52 am
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Still 4 months to wait till i get my implant in left breast. I am not known for being patient, being a woman i suppose, we usually want what we want RIGHT NOW!! I want to be able to show my two breasts to the world, but im shy about revealing right breast cause it has no nipple yet, that's the main reason, the scars dont bother me, why should they after what i've been through! IT doesnt stop me enjoyin myself and thank you folks for not being pushy, i have no idea what i'll look like after the op but i dont care, just as long as both look the same size. At present i'm using cleavage enhancer to balance both.
Hey!! have you read in the Daily Record that some women who have had breast cancer have stopped taking their anti-carcinogenic pills because they hate the side-effects i.e.hot flushes and night sweats!! Now please excuse me but WHY THE HELL are they doin that? Would they rather run the risk of it returning? The sweats are utterly HORRIBLE AND VERY UNCOMFORTABLE, wearing synthetic materials makes it worse so i wear cotton when i can. I DO NOT stop taking my pills, NO WAY!! Cant understand these women,really really STUPID decision to make!! OK, when the flushes start, first i sweat all over and feel wet and sticky and if i'm wearing make-up i cant wipe my face properly, then when the sweats subside i get the chills and have to put my jacket/whatever back on. In the house the fire is off and on all night. So are my blouses or cardies. In bed i wear a T-shirt to soak some of it, and it spares the sheet a little from gettin too wet. I've not had 1 full night's sleep since all this started, and of course it disturbs hubbies sleep too. BUMMER!!
When i rise in the morning i am cold as soon as i get out of bed and have to wear a fleece till after i've eaten, by which time i feel i'm at a normal temperature.
It is a SMALL price to pay, the sweats, rather that than runnin the risk of it returnin. I know there is no 1% guarantee in life that bad things wont happen again and i've faced old Death in the face, he's(?) not the ENEMY just a part of existence we have to accept cause there aint NUTHIN we can do to avoid it. i feel so free, now that i have, well not LOST my fear but it's certainly decreased, i try to look on it as an unknown journey we all have to do on our own, scary biscuits eh? lol.
What pisses me off is the fact both my arms are weaker than before and hubby has to do a lot of things for me, e.g.cutting my food, washing hair etc. He's been a tower of strength and supported me when i felt like shit. Thank you Fates for giving me him. love him to bits!!
Well, had my gripe so i'll go now, any other woman who has had this devastating news, dont hesitate to contact me, i'll do what i can to help you through it. No probs. Ta Ta for now!!
xxxxxxxxxx
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check-up
Posted:Aug 29, 2005 11:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Was a nervous wreck for 3 weeks worrying about my next visit to the doctor, and as usual it went better than i thought. Guess i kinda get anxious about things i cant change, which is a total waste of time and affects both of us. Fortunately i have a good husband who is sensible and logical, sometimes i need him to get to the core of the problem, i e my pessimism!! And after what we've been through you' think i'd appreciate and feel relieved im in reasonably good health and him too. Would anyone believe our only vice is smoking? Not in the least inclined to stop, no matter what people say to change my mind!
MY life philosophy is " What's for you wont go past you, im not afraid to die (well not as much lol) and i want to enjoy what life i have left so i'll take my chances. Fate will decide how we all die. Perhaps its good its something we have no control over and no foresight regarding future events. Just learning to go with the flow
sounds easy doesnt it? Some people do it easily while others have to work atit. Ah well no-one's perfect. That's what i love about humanity, its so diversified i am fascinated by new people i meet and the more eccentric the better. Although this has a double edged sword as not all people are nice eccentric,and you find out years later they're not the friends you thought they were. Ah such is life! lol
Anyway im just SOOOO looking forward to getting implant in right boob early 2006. \it'll be great to eventually not have to wear a bra everyday, obviously i'll have to wear one till i heal i dont mind that at least i can resign my "chicken fillets/breast enhancers to the bottom drawer. I will also have a new nipple on right boob too!! yippee!! left breast is definitely getting softer and has dropped to a more natural look. My plastic surgeon said this would take about a year after the reconstruction op this January. Hope i dont put on so much weight while in hospital it took me ages to get beck to a size 12. MY favourite jeans, all of them didnt fit me unless i held my breath for ever!! irony of it was, he didnt notice i'd put on nearly a stone in 1 week. Contrary to what people say, St.John's Hospital food was excellent. We all had 3 course breakfast, lunch and dinner plus sandwiches before bed. One of the patients told her doc she couldnt believe how much she ate and her ravenous appetite despite not being very active for obvious reasons. He explained that the body need the extra fuel to help speed up the healing process, which made a lot of sense.i hope little Kylie Minogue recovers completely. Disease has no respect for celebrities/stars or the nicest kindest generous considerate etc person(s) we know. Its a fact of life folks.
It certainly doesnt stop us from living and enjoying our lives its too short to worry and fret, oh yeah? well honey why dont i practice what i preach then hmmmmm? thought for the day.
Dont say you will leave it till tomorrow cos tomorrow never comes, do what you want, need or have to before its too late. Unless you, or I, want to live a lifetime full regret and "what if" or "if only". that only makes you worse when you regret things no one can change. Anyway enough havering im off for a bath and wash my hair. HAVE FUN FOLKS AND HAPPY HUNTIN!
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aches & pains f--k off!
Posted:Aug 2, 2005 8:19 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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3 weeks ago i couldnt shift the feeling of depression and my mood swings were up n down like yoyos. No apparent reason really, just a bad spell not helped by my night sweats caused by menopause and pills. Not a good feeling when u wake up with a wet body and soggy hair. DOH i took me long enough to realise i could tie my hair up when going to bed. My hair was getting dry and strawy and I thought it was because i had dyed it blonde too much.Cost me a fortune in shampoos and conditioners too!
Anyway my mood is much better now, it always passes if i give myself time and keep positive. Seeing as i am a natural pessimist its a tad difficult to change habits of a lifetime. After reading many articles and talking to (nurse) she explained what the hormone cortisol was and how it affects your body when you feel stressed,depressed and so on. It really does have an adverse effect physically as well as emotionally.
Having chronic back pain which also affects legs and arms doesnt help but i count my blessings, there's always someone worse off than yourself, unfortunately, for them i mean.
Got some equipment to help me in everyday activities from the Social Work,also on my good days i can still go out for a couple of hours with my friends so mustnt really complain as i like the life i have.
Getting right breast implanted early next year so both boobs will be same.YES!!! im up a cup size too,36(inches)B. Cant stop buying new underwear as im proud of them. Still feel uneasy about showing them both off on cam as left boob has no nipple yet, that'll be fixed when i get implant. So far so good. Used to say to future hubby that only the good die young so i would live to a ripe old age and he didnt like me saying that as he thought i was good.He can be so sweet when i least expect it!
Short blog today, been seeing how to use our new digital camera, we are so looking forward to taking some new pics!! Got new clothes and undies to wear for them.YIPPEE!! anyway will bog off now and do my Daily Record crossword " the wee thinker". See ya folks and happy huntin!!!
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experiences
Posted:Jun 4, 2005 9:03 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 9:52 am
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as i said before, the scene changed while we were off it.We met a cpl after a few false starts. At that time contact was made by magazine, answering letters & e xchanging pics.Despite being clear about what we wanted we still got inundated with single guys letters, pics,& 1 guy tried to phone as a woman! the 2nd cpl we met we hit it off immediately & are still good friends. when i was ill the two cpls we knew longest visited me regularly and supported my hubby. it was hard for him going home 2 an empty house. A few weeks after op we met up & had a great session, they accepted my appearance no problem & u know what? After 34 married yrs & 2 (wrinkles,stretch marks & 1 boob)my hubby still got aroused looking at me. That alone did wonders for my morale.

oh yes! " a funny thing happened on the way to the theatre" lol. nurse asked if i was ok so i replied that the eve before my way of saying tata to tittie was to give it a pearl necklace!
Think i embarrassed her just a WEE bit, too much info & pictures in her head! she did laugh though!

Once we had got used to the fact i had had cancer(they successfully removed it all)the hardest part for me was having to wear bras.Because i had 2 wear a prosthetic breast i had no choice. God i hated wearin em! I always went freestyle and getting used 2 a bra was quite difficult. Hell,after what i went thru that part was the hardest! Now im used 2 them & have increased my selection of sexy undies considerably.
lol i wore the wrong type of bra and my false one ended up round my waist. i wondered where it had gone!! Now i have less fear about life/death and if i can face the man with the scythe I can deal with ANYTHING life throws at me/us.thats all for today, wonder what comes next? check mu blog. tata folks & have a happy satisfied life.
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our years of
Posted:Jun 3, 2005 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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hard 2 believe we were 24 whenwe 1st began. very 1st cpl came 2 collect us 2 go 2 their house. we sat in back of car like 2 wee scared . imagine how we felt when alex oh so casually mentioned there would b 4 other cpls there! We clutched each other's hand so hard!!! they were 9yrs older. fortunately alex & Miggy were 1st class hosts & had devised their own version of "fantasy for lovers" LONG before it came on market.He had us arranged so the 1st thing i or my hubby did was with them. In @the deep end yes but it worked! We stayed friends for over 10yrs till he died suddenly & we were so devastated we "left" the scene for 8yrs+ were @ curious nosy stage. things were VERY different when we rejoined. That chapter will follow tomorrow. bye for now fuck-buddies.
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breast cancer&the"lifestyle"woman
Posted:May 31, 2005 11:04 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 9:52 am
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im a 52 yr old woman who had breast cancer 2yrs ago.had mastectomy & reconstruction this january. We r now back on the scene. my query is.....am i the only 1 out there who's had health probs & still wants 2 have sexy fun? surely i m not that unique! lol.& how do other women deal with this enormous change 2 their body,relationships,lifestyle,moods etc. etc ad infinitum!
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