Bad Boys VS Good Boys  

heavensent11236 52F
2577 posts
8/5/2006 6:32 am

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Bad Boys VS Good Boys


Since a few men were nice enough to spill on the guys about what men really mean when they say....
I thought I'd let a few of you in on why women seem to be attracted to the Bad Boys as opposed to the Good Boys.
It's actually very simple, it all breaks down to excitement.

When you know a good guy you think, ok, nice guy which also translates to BORING!!!! This means no spur of the moment anything. This also translates to ho-hum sex, never up to try anything new. Get use to the missionary position because thats all your going to be getting.

Bad boys, on the other hand, translates to excitement, never really sure about whats going to happen next. Which also translates to the I'm up for anything in the sex department, nothing is to bizarre.

I never at any point said the stereotype was accurate but it's the perception most women have, and we have it because we base it on past experiences.

1Sir_Lancelot 59M

8/5/2006 3:02 pm

Well I would have to agree with you that the stereotype isn't accurate at all. I'd like to think of myself as a good guy in the way that I deal with, and treat others. But those that have taken the chance to know me would agree that I'm a good guy with a "Bad Boy's" attitude at the right times. I think that's what it comes down to, the ability to know when to let it ALL hang out. LOL


softnlush 53F

8/5/2006 7:20 pm

Ok speaking from my standpoint..I am still suffering from the scar tissue inflicted on me from bad boys..and yet..I still am attracted to them..glutton for punishment? YEP..my FWB,is bad boy 100% with a twist,he is also a gentleman. He has a good soul and good heart..but oh yea..a bad boy in bed..just like I like em.

But I have had nice guys..reallllllllllllllllllllllly nice guys..and shit,nothing like being treated with respect,having doors held for you,his eyes looking into my eyes instead of my cleavage..To actually kiss goodnight and him not pressuring for the invite inside..I don't know,heaven..as much as I love the excitement and the spontenienty(sp)of the bad boy..not into nursing the wounds after and some of mine are decades old..It is nice to be treated well,and to have a man who is kind and good..not many of them around,why? cause some smart women realized he was a keeper *sighs*


rm_New2FLCouple 40M/41F

8/6/2006 6:53 am

Bad boys, on the other hand, translates to excitement, never really sure about whats going to happen next. Which also translates to the I'm up for anything in the sex department, nothing is to bizarre.

I agree with this - I think it speaks to our desire for a challenge in life. It's not to say that we don't experience it in other aspects of life.. but some of us truly enjoy the idea of being able to handle a
"bad boy" ..hehe..or have him "handle" us.

Unless this kind of man can be tamed eventually.. he is NOT the type to bring home to mama.


heavensent11236 52F

8/6/2006 3:56 pm

I agree New2, but I think just about any badboy can be tamed for the most part, given enough time and patience, but at the same time you don' want to break their spirit or you'll loose what makes them truly unique. Why does riding a wild broncho suddenly come to mind?? lol
Saddle up boys, we are headed for town.

SnL- ahhhh the very best of both worlds a gentleman in public but a slut in bed, who ever said it only had to be the females that could do this?


Xeryien 51M
1445 posts
8/7/2006 10:55 am

Hmmm - keep this up and I might give KingCat his testicles back.....

This is why women make no sense to men at all...

"Good Guys" and "Bad Guys"... I project good guy all over the place (Well, I think I do) and it drives me crazy. But trust me, I fit your definition of Bad Boy much more than your definition of good boy.

Oh well, "Can't live with them.. Can't kill'em..." I guess it works both ways!


SirMounts 102M

12/16/2006 1:37 am

heavensent...
Well, that's why I'm constantly on the lookout for ways to downgrade My image. *winking*


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