Your Own Little Corner and Jealousy  

heavensent1123 52F
447 posts
3/20/2006 10:40 am

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Your Own Little Corner and Jealousy

Occasionally, well more than occasionally, I read blogs. Some are entertaining, some get boring after awhile, especially if it's about the same thing over and over and over again.
I also find myself becoming jealous, of those people who can say and write whatever they want.
I have to be careful, I can't say exactly what I want because I know certain people will read what it is I've written and then I'll have to answer questions, it just isn't worth it.
I use to keep a diary, but had to be careful there also because there were always people that if they found it they would have read it. Blogs are different, you get feedback, especially if your going through a what do I do scenerio.

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/20/2006 11:21 am

I don't have to answer any questions about anything I write, or where I chose to put it. Not because people I know don't read it. But because I don't have anything to hide from famly and friends. Its tough living a double life. It is just easier to be open, then it is to worry about who is going to ask you what. My motto...just ask, or shut the hell up!

easy_8 56M

3/20/2006 11:23 am

Say what ever you want long as your pic is next to your comment, I will never be bored!!

rm_hippy6663 65M

3/20/2006 12:50 pm

I do lead a double life and they cross some of my friends know both sides of me but most people don't have any idea about it

49AK 55M
1823 posts
3/20/2006 1:56 pm

What I do when I want to write about something that someone might read is to obscure it somehow. In one of my early blog entries I wrote an ostensibly fictional account of visiting a bar in another city, as a way to critique the way some of the local people treat others at the weekly meet-n-greet. If you were paying attention, you might get it, but it was obscured enough that there was plausible deniability.

Another thing I do is poetry; haiku, typically.

The best part about it is that you get to think about it and put your thoughts into words... and doing that helps you decide how you feel about things.

softnlush 53F

3/20/2006 2:07 pm

The only time I ever felt censored was when someone asked me to remove something I wrote (which I did,no problem even though names were not mentioned),in all my blogs,I write what I feel,I really could care less what people think(again except for that 1 time) about what I write,I never mean to hurt peoples feelings,I try to write only about what I feel and the whole point of blogging is to get it out for me and honestly anyone who truly knows me knows that what I write is really nothing different from what I will flat out share with those in my inner circle..I think my blog is different in a way,because you never know if you are going to read about a special time I had with my lover,or if I am gonna share a fantasy ..or if I am gonna bitch about something that bothers me Ha Ha..I write the truth-like it or lump it (and again in 1 case,since it really bothered someone I removed it)..most do not read me..and for the record..I will never be censored if you don't want me writing about ya,don't do anything to me or for me that is blogworthy (and that could be taken several ways)hehe..what I guess I am trying to say,you should be able to write about anything you want,whenever you want,it is YOUR BLOG..hugs girlie

AltumHunksUnite 53M

3/20/2006 2:47 pm

I'm kinda careful with mine, trying not to mention any real names except for one friend who gave me full permission. Otherwise, sometimes I worry about writing too much. I started the blog to have fun, but I've probably posted a few downers, some lately.

Let me drive. I like the view

starlight_runner 39F

3/20/2006 3:03 pm

I get the feeling u want to let go , say what the fuck and do as u please.Sometimes thats whats needed.Its very liberating and the consequences dont have 2 be bad.It depends how u view things.If u are urself here why hide it to please others.

kisses star

runzwithknives 59F

3/20/2006 3:22 pm

You can say and write whatever you want. I do and so do a lot of people. I don't feel obliged to answer anything I don't want to either.

However, if you are going to publically criticize someone else's blog/comments/feelings/etc? And, if you feel you can't answer questions (defend your own thoughts? Or defend shitty remarks??) then may be best to not say anything at all. Like you say. It just wouldn't be worth it. But no use feeling jealous if that's your decision.


ella1966 50F
1528 posts
3/20/2006 4:59 pm

I think that as in real life, you must be circumspect about what you say to someone, you must also be cautious about what you write on here, after all, it is a public forum. People do have feelings and get offended. I also find that if you are trying to catch someone's attention it is a futile waste of time if they have moved on, so that is not my purpose at all. I have been banned from blogging, I don't know why, probably due to my last post about email scams. This is frustrating as I really wanted to say something today. I hope it isn't due to another very personal post which I have now hidden from view.



piamatter 44F

3/20/2006 5:12 pm

Right now my blog is therapy. Trust your gut instincts or create an alter ego blog where you can really let go. I ve got one of those too.

NawtieBBWwantsit 45F
70 posts
3/20/2006 5:56 pm

I just be damned if I would hold back.

Speak your mind and if you hurt some feelings, oh well.

They shouldnt be so sensitive.

I do understand about living a double life. I live it everyday. I don't boast about my activities online to friends and family, but i've been found out before. People in my life know better than to make fun or question me about what I do. Last time I checked nobody is paying my bills but me.

I choose not to show my all of my face on my pictures. For the simple fact that when I run for president in the year 2015, I don't need a potential fuck fling getting back at me for not fucking him.
But hey, it would just be free publicity anyway.

heavensent1123 52F

3/21/2006 3:11 am

49AK, my other downfall, I'm really bad with poetry, comes out reading like it was done by a 5 year old or something like that.
Cleavis, I've been reading yours, never been a downer in one of them, but I am wonder who the mystery lady is *wink*
Starlight and Runz- not bashing anyone, just wanting to get some things off my chest, I'm not really the type to bash someone I've never met, so people I write about or those that piss me off are people that I deal with in real life.
SNL- girl I almost always enjoy your blogs, nice and hot!!!

niceguy00769 47M
123 posts
3/21/2006 7:46 am

some people have the gift of being able to express exactly what they want and make for an enjoyable read. i'll never be one of those.
it's your blog and as long as it isn't about someone specific write what you feel. if you don't feel like answering questions then don't and if someone gets offended it's their problem not yours. make it enjoyable for you

Buddy100560 56M  
124 posts
3/21/2006 9:14 am

I have started to write because I find it to be liberating and sexy. I want to write all that happened to me and all my fantasy. I do write it and I hope not many know me. I have met some great friends here and some great experiences on AdultFriendFinder.

heavensent1123 52F

3/21/2006 1:32 pm

Pia- thanks sweetie. I didn't actually mean anyone specific, was just venting, you know the downside to dating anyone you meet from this site is they see what you write.

runzwithknives 59F

3/21/2006 6:47 pm

Yes, sometimes the do see what you write but I'm convinced that sometimes there's an upside to it as well.
Understand what you are saying about real life people pissing you off. Just pokin' the bear a bit.
Blog your heart out girfriend!!

Hugs, Rosa

heavensent1123 52F

3/29/2006 3:55 pm

Thanks Runz- I've been working on that as you can see and yes I finally let loose, and you know what??? It felt great!!!!!!!!

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