When Being Nice Just Doesn't Isn't Worth it Anymore  

heavensent1123 52F
447 posts
3/21/2006 11:57 am

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When Being Nice Just Doesn't Isn't Worth it Anymore

I've run across a certain female (I'll call her Mrs. Horseface because thats the only thing I can think of whenever I see her). I've tried repeatedly to be nice to her, make comments on what she writes, make jokes, all that, but there comes a point when you just have to say you know what? Your a nasty, insecure, ugly B*tch. I'm tired of extending the olive branch, I never did anything to you but you are so hung up on your inadequacies that you finally made an enemy out of me (granted if I looked like you I'd have serious hang-ups also)but your ugly inside as well, very ugly so all the outside fine tuning in the world isn't going to make you any prettier when you haven't worked on the inside. IF you have any intelligence at all you will know exactly who I'm talking about. Whats the problem? Your mad because the one guy you wanna fuck so bad you can't see straight wouldn't give you the time of day? Let me tell you first hand then, he's an amazing fuck.
You have managed to annoy and irritate most of the women that you come into contact with your whinny, poor me, your prettier than I am so I have got to ignore/hate you attitude. You just past irritating me, you want an enemy you just got one. Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone, you got that last part down to a science.

lifes2short069 48M
138 posts
3/21/2006 6:54 pm

I think someone needs a BIG HUG .... I agree and have known people that have done the same thing. They are so miserable they point out everyone else so-called faults to make them better.. I have no time for them either.

l8r babe L2S

heavensent1123 52F

3/21/2006 7:03 pm

Thank you VERY much L2S, I really needed that hug. It's just been an ongoing thing, but I finally just lost my temper, I'd like to say I'll feel bad about it tomorrow but after all this time I really highly doubt it.

softnlush 53F

3/22/2006 6:48 am

I know the feeling..as I wrote a few months back..it is somewhere in my blog..there comes a point in your life where the jealousies and insecurities have to stop..when I was much much younger I went thru an awfully horrible gawky stage and I refused absolutely refused to be seen with prettier girls (we are talking teenage years).

As I got older..and actually discovered the benefits of having above average in looks friends..I had NO issues with it..the facts are the facts..No one is perfect (not even perfect super models or actresses as you mentioned in your previous blogs)..and in most cases almost all women are above average when it comes to the WHOLE package..and YES some men will make you feel less attractive or more attractive (depends if they are shallow men or true men),it is about what YOU think of YOU that counts..when you are so hung up on what other people look like..you lose so much of what to enjoy about being with other people and hanging out..and you end up alienating people because as you say..UGLY runs to the bone..and my favorite saying is "God don't like ugly".

Although I have NO idea who you are talking about...I would think she has many other issues that have nothing to do with the prettier folks..and although I agree that sometimes being nice does not pay..maybe you should just feel sorry for her..which may not be nice..but at least you can say.."sheesh,poor thing she is just so sad,I feel bad for her" and then move on with your day..I hope whoever it is recognizes herself and seeks to help herself from the inside out..don't you agree?

Hugs girlie..it does get better..or so I been told ha ha


heavensent1123 52F

3/22/2006 7:20 am

Thanks g/f, I can always count on you and a few others to be the voice of reason when I totally loose mine. As for the sheesh poor thing???? How do you think I kept my mouth shut these last few months, but seeing as that didn't do me any good I just kind of lost it. You don't have to like me, but when I say something I at least expect an acknowledgment instead of just being publicly ignored.
Some people are just ignorant.

niceguy00769 48M
123 posts
3/22/2006 10:41 am

Don't know who you are taking about but yes some people are so insecure with themselves they have to take it out on everyone else instead of dealing with their issues. You are so right about ugliness going all the way to the bone. Doesn't matter what they look like if they aren't beautiful inside. Understandable that you have to let off a little steam. Try not let it get to you, some people just aren't worth your time and effort.
Huge hug there are still lots of great people out there

nevertootall4u 53M

3/22/2006 10:43 am

being NICE does count. but even ncie people need to let loose. no-one deserves to be treated badly. in cyber world, or the real world. this is meant to be FUN. yet too many dont have that clue. so, what part of heaven U from? ps, nice tall close single man says hi and as far as i know, Mrs Horseface doesnt want to fuck me.

heavensent1123 52F

3/22/2006 11:12 am

Never- you literally had me laughing so hard with that last comment, and I'm from the northern part of heaven, as in up.
Niceguy- thanks for the kind words, as for who she is? Doesn't really matter, if she has half a brain she'd figure it out herself.
The things I do for friends sometimes., all for the sake of keeping peace.

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