Here kitty, kitty,kitty......  

heavensent1123 52F
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2/3/2006 6:09 am

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Here kitty, kitty,kitty......


Ok, I thought let it go, cause it's just never going to change, but I can't let it go. So here's my pet peeve (pun not intended) for the day.
There's nothing that pisses me off faster than katty friggin women. Men, men are basically straight forward, they don't go behind your back, or start sharpening their knives when your back is turned.
I'm often asked why do you have more friends that are guys than you do females. Any female basically knows the answer to that question. Females in general can't be trusted, you have your rare few but believe me it's extremely rare.
I can look at a beautiful woman and admit straight up, hey shes beautiful, smart, talented, ect. We all have our own insecurities, hell I'm the first to admit I have mine. However I try to work on mine, doesn't do anyone a damn bit of good, to sit back and moan and bitch about what they have, haven't, look like, don't look like, weigh, don't weigh, ect ect and then not do a friggin thing about it.
We all have wishes and desires, some will come to pass if you work hard enough and some just aren't meant to be, period. Give me a guy anyday, so much less bitchy.

AltumHunksUnite 53M

2/3/2006 9:36 am

Oh, I know EXACTLY what you mean.

Whenever I'm around something like that, I slip into the other room and switch on the game... any game. Heck, I'll watch golf before sit and listen to that crap.

Unless of course there's a possibility that the catty arguement will turn into a naked wrestling match.

Let me drive. I like the view


softnlush 53F

2/6/2006 6:55 am

I actually wrote about something like this on my blog ..the post is called..Why Can't Women just be for eachother.. My feelings about cattiness and jealousies and the facts of life..take a gander..it is a page or 2 or 3 in..but that is my feelings on the subject..and of course I got someone who replied saying why she does not trust women and I gave her my opinion on that as well..

But it does bring up a memory..I had a friend who would be described as "beautiful" no getting around it..when she walked in a room people stopped talking and I enjoyed hanging out with her alot because of it. But there were times when it was annoying to see her act like her shit don't stink,honestly before she realized her "power" she was fun to be with,she attracted all the hot guys and usually after a chat with her us "regular" girls got the best guys of the bunch (meaning they were not about looks only)ha ha..but once she was aware of herself she got obnoxious about it and unfortunatly lost a lot of friends because of it. I do not think for one second it was about how she looked..it was about her perception of herself and that to me is unattractive,it is one thing to be beautiful and comfortable in that beauty (and beauty meaning inside and outside)it is quite another to use it in a unflattering way..she had a lot going on for her..she was beautiful,she was smart,she was engaging..until she realized her looks,for her,got her whatever she wanted even if it hurt other people..and then it is just bad bad bad ha ha..

Just my 2 cents..but for the most part..I used to agree with that whole women are bitchy and catty stuff (in my teens and 20s)..then I met friends who were truly wonderful women and 2 of them I know over 25 yrs..the others go into the 15 yr mark..I trust them with everything including my men..my feeling is,if he wants to go..then he was not worth having in the first place..SEE YA!!!

As I said in my blog,there will always be someone younger,prettier,sexier more successful than I am as I will be younger,prettier,sexier than someone else..it is life..deal with it,don't you agree?

((hugs to ya ))
snl


heavensent1123 52F

2/6/2006 7:59 am

totally agree for the most part snl, yes there will always be women that define themselves based on how many men they can get, it's a game to them. If you look at it analitically however it's those same women that have a serious inferiority complex, those that need to hear on a routine basis just how beautiful they are, doesn't say much for them. If what they look like is the only thing they have going for them that gets old fast, I don't care how beautiful you are.
It's the catty women that get to me most though, those that just can't say something nice to another female and mean it, they automatically think it diminshes them or your after their man , ect ect. At the same time I think men should have certain obligations, if your with a man and he happens to see a beautiful woman, the whiplash syndrome to look at her ass or tits or whatever does send out a clear message to the one they are with that maybe they aren't good enough. So guys if you absolutely HAVE to look, at least me a little discreet about it!!!!


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