Pornography  

heavenly_body39 60F
740 posts
8/30/2006 9:39 am

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9/5/2006 2:59 pm

Pornography

I have seen a fair amount of porn on the net this year. While I prefer amateur porn to studio-produced porn, most of it, in my opinion is just plain boring.

Sometimes, a contri on homeclips will turn me on enough to masturbate to it. However, these clips often are too short for me to cum before they stop. Then in frustration I throw down my toy and hit the rewind button. This has happened again and again to me, funny....

But little of it really gets me hot. I do recall one professional porn vid I watched at a friend's house last year that showed a mfm; the female was DP'd vaginally and did not fake the orgasm that occurred, the men encouraging her all the while. This was exceptional because in most porn the actresses' sexual responsiveness and pleasure, including orgasm, is artificial.

Do I believe porn desensitizes men and women? I am not sure; I have no judgements but I do think my ex-lover used porn nightly to jerk off before bedtime. It may be true that he learned to objectify women through this; I believe, rather, that he had an inflated sense of women's bodies. I never felt I quite measured up in terms of my physical beauty for him. This may have been due to watching atypically developed and enhanced women on the screen for so many years. He taught me a lot about porn and I learned, through him, to use it at times.

I still am looking for porn that addresses my need to see beautiful visual cinematography, eroticism, and just plain hetero penetration. I get off on men's pleasure so watching a man feel total pleasure in response to his love for a woman would be the epitome of hot.

But wouldn't it then be necessary to have it in my bed, instead of on a screen? I think so.


louandal2 65M/60F

8/30/2006 10:33 am

See if you can find "In Love" with Kelly Nichols - made back in the days when porn movies had a plot, a budget and a decent cast - you'll cry at the end of it - now how often can you say that about a porn film? It's probably VHS only - I haven't seen DVD version.

ALso, have a look at the movies that the good folks at blowfish.com have - they have great taste (if that's what you're looking for) and some real tacky stuff if that's what you need.


sixshooter693 72M
203 posts
8/30/2006 10:38 am

heavenly_body,wouldn't the ultimate pleasure come from being with someone u loved instead of watching a porn movie. i can't get too turned on with porn movies knowing a lot is just staged. the greatest pleasure i have derived has come from someone that wants to be with me.


heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
8/30/2006 10:20 pm

six...exactly my point...

ty, lou, for the info!


nightis 52M

8/31/2006 7:52 am

I have certainly had my share of getting off to some form of "soft-porn". Ironically, since I am kind of a brainiac, I get off far more reading stories rather than video. More to the imagination I guess. Regardless, it was and is a habit I would drop like a rock with a person who will express themselves with me the way that you describe. There is nothing like the actual touch of a woman that will express their own curiosities towards your body!


rm_joemmpdx1 58M
6 posts
8/31/2006 6:25 pm

Interesting, but for me I love looking at 40-60 year old real women. Maybe because they are much more real than an unattainable 25 year old porn actress. I look at most of my porn on newsgroups specifically devoted to women of this age...I hate to say some of them are labeled "senior citizens...alt.binaries.erotica.senior-citizens is one I like. Or alt.binaries.erotica.older-women. There is all kinds of stuff, but many really attractive 40-50 ish women. My favorite are two older women together.

I love looking at the profile pics in AdultFriendFinder too. Nothing turns me off more than the typical plastic porn model. Just my take.


rm_dagos37 63M

9/1/2006 2:26 am

I personally can't get turned on by all the same 'ol boring bla moans 'n groans of: Ohh, ohhh, ohhh, ohh....big deal!!!....I personaly want to hear th NASTY stuff....REAL stuff...just plain old ewwww, ahhhh, ewwww, ahhhhsss...don't cut it for this guy.

Plus, in jusssst about every dang video made today "ALL" the women are tottally shaved, which turns me off. (and of course so are alot of the guys too now a days---yuk!!!)

Again, personally I want to be with a WOMAN, not a 9 yr old 'Lil kid!!!

So in most amature movies, the women are real....don't look like Barbies...and generally have some hair there!!!!

Also....most all the movies made today are soooo boring, they all do the same 'ol thing. I like the type that was mentioned up there: two cocks in the pussy (or ass)....now thats different!


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