Lingerie...why don  

heavenly_body39 60F
740 posts
8/26/2005 3:04 pm

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Lingerie...why don

I just got home from shopping, with a gift certificate...at my favorite lingerie/fetish wear boutique.

The sales clerk, a cute giggly girl, told me that she had one male customer who had built a lingerie closet for his wife. He came in regularly to restock it. His wife and he have five children and have been together many years...yet he still adores/treasures her enough to know that lingerie is the key to her soul.

Now...one of my very favorite things to do on a date...with male or female...is to go have a beverage (martini; shaken, not stirred) and then go lingerie shopping. I love that I can exhibit my body, love to see how comfortable a man is in such a sexualized environment. I use it as a bit of a test, in fact; I reason, that if a man glows in Victoria's Secret while imagining me in a lacy ensemble, he might just enjoy the real thing, too.

So...why don't more men understand, and use, the power of lingerie?

BTW, I came home with a sweet but sexy black mesh thong and bra set...shall I go on cam to show it off? lol


rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
8/26/2005 3:39 pm

It's the other way around.A woman with stockings and high heels has me hooked.That's all I need.However I've known many woman who will not put it on.They are too critical of thier own bodies.They think you have to be perfect to wear that,which is all wrong.


rm_MoFoInTexas 68M

8/26/2005 3:52 pm

Taking a lady to Victoria's Secret is very good and inexpensive foreplay. We men spend hundreds of dollars on dinner, theater, sports tickets, etc....you name, we do it, but $100 in a lingerie shop can usually buy you more than your wildest dreams could have imagined.

Great thread Ms. Body....and great body also.

Thanks


heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
8/26/2005 4:12 pm

i cannot imagine not loving a man's deliberately buying some sexy thing with the idea of me in it. i'm with mzhuny...and i suppose that more women need to relish wearing lingerie for their men. i wear it for ME...


rm_dentmagnet9 60M

8/26/2005 5:14 pm

I go to Victoria's Secret all of the time with my girl. I very much enjoy it and she even lets me pick out some stuff for her. Yes heavenly I believe youre correct in the notion that lingerie is very important to women. And they very much appreciate their guy getting involved


rm_nickkadams 50M
21 posts
8/26/2005 5:31 pm

That's interesting. I love to see my wife in lingerie. I love to buy it for her. For 18 years, she has the best La Perla from Italy, she likes the bras, panties from France, and if I need something quick, she has plenty of Secrets from Victoria as well. So when you get to the point that a lacy surprize doesn't get you sex, and when you do get sex it is reluctantly after removing grandma panties, what do you do? I was at VS and the clerk said wait, these are two different sizes, I and stop her from going to swap them, that I wanted two different sizes, and then the look on her face when she realizes that I am buying for my wife and a girlfriend, guess that makes me the biggest asshole ever, right ladies?


sandhazard 54M
129 posts
8/26/2005 9:33 pm

I have my Victoria Secret Card ready for those special little gifts that I may want to buy for that special date.

*wink*
Sandhazard


heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
8/26/2005 9:54 pm

i'm telling you, the men who have posted here carry with them some potent knowledge that transcends even physical attributes (although i see some fine endowments in these pictures)...

the power of lingerie!


rm_dentmagnet9 60M

8/29/2005 7:42 pm

I assume (at the risk of being an ass) that you are refering to my pic and my post and I sincerely thank you Heavenly!


rm_dentmagnet9 60M

8/29/2005 7:44 pm

and I almost forgot Heavenly, Nice pic!


heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
8/30/2005 5:21 pm

LOL...an ass was definitely NOT what I was referring to, dentmagnet!! Turn around for your next photo; send it, and we will see (smiling...)

thank you for the compliment.


rm_ubercutecpl 39M/36F

8/31/2005 7:40 pm

men are too logical, at times, for their own good. they don't always see the point of the pretty wrapping paper just to get torn off or their present. sadly for them they are usually the ones who don't understand the joys of foreplay. the fact that we men who understand the use/need/appeal of lingerie are also the ones who understand the blessed joys of foreplay may add to the reason that you are more attracted to us...sorry, no pic for you to rate, you'll just have to imagine. =o)


kokpelli_999 61M

9/1/2005 2:04 pm

Very interesting test Heavenly. I will keep it in mind when planning future first dates. Thank you for the lesson. Kok


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