Italian Men  

heavenly_body39 60F
740 posts
10/9/2005 8:58 am

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3/21/2006 11:10 pm

Italian Men

How I loved Italian men's exuberance for women, their sheer appreciation for our womanliness and beauty. Most places we traveled, we got looks; my best friend has the most gorgeous, striking straight shiny strawberry-blonde hair, swinging past her shoulders; hazel eyes, wide, white smile.

Men, when talking to us, would get close enough to smell our scent. She found herself being drawn in by a charming older man and his son at a wrought iron factory we stopped into. He leaned in close enough to inhale her; appreciated her openly as she awaited her large purchase to be boxed up for transport back home.

This appreciation is sometimes more subtle than others, but in all cases, I reveled in the open juiciness of male attention. Twenty years earlier, I might have felt threatened. This time in my life, it felt like balm.

And knowing the reputation Italian men have as 'horn dogs' my friend Renzo went out of his way to be polite to the point of being quite distant with me. When I met him at the Bologne train station that weekend, he was polite, cordial, but formal and reserved. He had booked me a room to stay in as he was sharing space with a roommate and had rented a car (his had been totaled in an accident 8 months before).

I wondered if perhaps he would be staying in the room with me, but he had no bag and it seemed as if his promise was true: he would be my tour guide with no expectations of anything else.

So given this distance, I began to trust, not easy for me...

RoverSlumpFroth 59M
2 posts
10/9/2005 9:30 pm

It does not surprise me that you got the looks. I am sure that you get them where ever you travel in life. Sometimes the beauty of life is the encounterrs that we have, however brief. These are at times rays of sunshine, that give life and hope. May your travels in life be filled with many such encounters. May your quest be short and revealing.

heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
10/10/2005 7:05 am

hugs and thanks for your blessing, pxm...

italian women are also gorgeous, but undoubtedly spoiled by growing up in such a juicy culture. lucky women! renzo told me that anal sex is as common to have as vaginal sex; there were few taboos when it came to bed activities...

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
10/10/2005 10:16 am

I think I need to become a tour guide and show you the local culture and customs. Yes, there are few taboos, let me show what they are.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
10/10/2005 10:28 am

Did you know.. it has been reported that since the it is not sex... that many teens got into anal sex and other things rather than "normal" sex.


heavenly_body39 60F
157 posts
10/10/2005 4:48 pm

hmmm you mean here in the US anacortes?

i think it is allll good. but then i spent some time researching anal sex, with the help of a cornell medical student on yahoo. he taught me lots...

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