How many calls?  

havinsumfun74 42M  
19 posts
9/5/2006 7:02 pm

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How many calls?

Here's the situation: I've been chatting with a very nice woman and everything was going great. Decided to meet and have a couple drinks. Again, everything went great. But this leads me to my question...How many phone calls is too much?

I mean really. I was in Atlanta on business last week and I must have had two calls from her every day the entire time I was out of town. It got to the point where I didn't even want to look at my phone. Borderline stalking ? Too much mojo? Really turned me off to say the least.

Anyone else had the experience?


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
9/5/2006 7:39 pm

Hey I don't how much is too much. If she's not your girlfriend or wife, I don't think she should be calling you everyday unless you don't mind and really want her too. Sounds like she's thinking you're his man or something. And now, go tell her in the face to not call everyday because you don't feel comfortable with it. If you don't, I'm sure she will keep calling until your phone explodes.

Shazz1971 44F
1052 posts
9/7/2006 7:45 pm

So are you trying to say that women SHOULDN'T call several times a day???!!! Damn... I guess that explains a few things...

Ha Ha

I suppose it could be due to a womans nature... that unexplainable need to "know"... maybe she was calling you because she needed some "reassurance" from you, that the meeting did indeed sizzle. So... did it fizzle??? Seems like it. I guess if someone starts out annoying you... where is it going to go from there?

Best of luck with the explosive situation...

RedMenice 45F

10/15/2006 10:07 pm

You are responsible for setting boundries....and if you cannot communicate something as simple as "stop blowing up my phone" to a grown're destined for more trouble.
Always be matter what.

spanishlou4u 61M

10/20/2006 12:40 am

You did not say what happen after the two drinks, just that it went great. Did you follow up at your place or hotel? Maybe thats why she felt it was fine to call a few times a day.

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