Anal sex can be like lemon juice in your eye.  

havenbliss 43F
195 posts
2/9/2006 10:48 pm

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4/15/2006 2:08 am

Anal sex can be like lemon juice in your eye.

I have found the average guy love anal sex. I mean sure, it can be extremely good for them and for us. What makes me laugh is how if you ask them if maybe if they are willing to go tit for tat that are against it. Not because they consider it an affront to their heterosexuality but because they think, "Something in my ass? Umm no way".

So many men are afraid of anything of size in their ass but they expect us to take their 6, 7...8+ inch cocks with a moan and roses.

Something I admired about the last person I was with was his eagerness to do anal play both ways. Granted he never wanted to include another guy (which I am cool with) but I appreciated his openess about it. Now I have a friend that is extremely attracted to the idea of being taken by a woman. Full on harness, deep penetration in multiple ways and of course I am all for that.

So I say, hey be willing to try new things. Be open and honest about why you are against having something in your ass and why it is something expected of so many girls? Anal sex for men can be enjoyable too considering their prostate gland can be likened to a women's g-spot. Take your ass for a spin guys and you might find you like it. Hey it doesn't mean your gay, it is just means you are comfortale with yourself and are willing to try variations to find new ways to have pleasure.

It isn't like we are asking you to put a coke bottle up your ass..*cough*...but to show us your trust and faith to share such a personal experience with us, let us feel close to you and enjoy!

Happy plugging...

WntToLick 42M

2/10/2006 10:05 am

Bravo! I personally think that any guy who wants to put his dick in a woman's ass should be willing and ready to take a dildo or vibe up his. He really has no idea what he's missing if he doesn't at least try it.

rm_sandysnatch 50F
7 posts
2/11/2006 10:37 pm

I would have to agree with WntToLick, because it won't make you gay, and you won't die. We promise not to just jam it in with no warning or help (hello lube), you know, like you men do. Plus .. maybe next time you wouldn't be so damn anxious and thrilled about a little anal.

_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

2/19/2006 6:31 am


*looks at Coke bottle.....*

8321 posts
2/23/2006 6:06 am

My opinion on this is simple.

If women were meant to do the penetrating, they'd have the penis instead of the vaginal orifice. It's pretty simple. I don't expect a woman to have anal sex as if it's a foregone conclusion as part of our sexual pact. No. Would I like her to try anal sex? Of course.

There's nothing more intense than anal sex, the intimacy and trust factor involved make it implicitly raw and deep.

I've never had a woman ask to use a strap-on on me, and I doubt I'd let her. Never say never, though. In a LTR, I might eventually agree if I love the woman. It's just that I'm so used to dominating that it would be strange to be on the receiving end...

I won't rule it out though.....


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_doug_vr 47M
58 posts
4/14/2006 5:48 pm

I'd love to have a woman take me with a strap on, I think it would be wild. I've had fingers used on me , & vibrators too. It is amazing. I'm not ashamed to admit it, & no, I'm not gay, lol. The only way something that big would be going in my ass is if it's strapped on to a woman.
Note to Sprocket, I'd have turned that drunk girl down too, lol
Good choice man.

Love your blogs Havenbliss, keep them up

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