Houston, we have a problem  

rm_harshawj 51M
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1/20/2006 8:24 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Houston, we have a problem

[For men only! Women, skip this entry.]

Alright, not just Houston, everywhere there may be a problem, and here it is:

Many men seem to be just hittin’ it and forgetting it. From my experience with women, the reason they want more sex is because a lot of us guys are doing the “wham, bam, thank you maam” thing and forgetting that the women they are hitting up are sexual being too. Guys, women have needs too and want more than a five minute fuck to make them happy.

I think that for many guys sex is something that guys do to please themselves, but there is a lot more to it than that. There is another person involved and she wants to be pleased as well. Sometimes I think us guys forget that. Once we are happy we forget that sex even exists and with it the women. We roll over and leave our partner unsatisfied.

I do not know about you other gents, but I want to be a good lover. Even if the first go around is quick, there is always orgasm number two down the line in thirty minutes and number three an hour after that. Now from my personal experience, if you can apply your attention to your partner for a whole ninety minutes she will be just as satisfied as you, maybe even more. Better yet, you do not need to be a world-class mattress dancer, the effort will speak for itself. She is then well sated, you are squirted dry, and best of all, she will think you are a great lover for actually giving a shit about her needs (from a human point of view, you should be concerned anyway.)

So a kindly suggestion for us guys… Slow down and take your time. Ask her what she likes and give it to her. Tell her what you like and want. Don’t stop after the first squirt, it gets better and more intense as you go along and she will love it. This is what women want, I think, but they seem to want to keep this secret to themselves and not share it, so I am laying out for us guys.

hotandhorny107 58F

1/20/2006 9:31 pm

okay. I am a woman and I read it because you said not too LOL. But you hit it pretty much on the nose. I like the wham bam thing now and then, but prefer to have my partner stay longer than a half hour at a time. Sure I may have climaxed but with some encouragement and play I can do it again and again, until both of us are totally spent.
I have had lovers that are aware of this and they are the best ones.
Men that take the time to get to know me a bit and vice versa are the ones I have the best sex with.

Just my quarters worth.

NiceGuy6762 66M

1/20/2006 9:45 pm

Boys will be boys and men will be men. Real men take the time to be generous. Boys are selfish.

I heartily agree.

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