rm_harshawj 51M
761 posts
10/12/2005 10:39 pm

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Blogs as exhibitionism and video voyeurism, two sides of the same coin? But would you take the next step and be the ones on the other end of the camera? Would you shed all you cloths, your protections and broadcast yourself for all to see? Would you perform for the camera intimate acts that most would consider private? Would you and a partner make love (not just sex) for an audience?

For me that question was answered early on as I had a partner who was truly into it. For her (if you read my blogs you know her as Diane) it was a natural thing, she felt that sex in public was just as acceptable as kissing, and with that reasoning, I agree. The fact that I was a willing accomplice would indicate that I do not have a problem with it, but then again no one was filming. Would that have made a difference?

Most of us have taken a picture or two right? In fact I have only met one woman who has not taken a naughty picture or two dozen. Even my camera shy ex had me take them. And I have taken stills for many other women as well. It is fun to capture the moment, and why not, they are fun moments. Helps the memories last real long doesn’t it. And if things do not end up good down the line, they make good kindling.

But there is something about doing for video. For me it is like doing it live, and as I said I do not have a problem with it, but for others… Is it the chance of “being caught” or recorded as later “evidence”? What really is it that keeps you from broadcasting your sex for all to see? Oh, and on a site like this I will never buy the case that it is on moral grounds that you will not do it, let’s be real.

After all, if you did you are going to make other, lonely people, very happy.

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/13/2005 5:46 am

even though you say 'on this site' I have not taken those pics you talk about. I feel that making love is an intimate private act, not one for everyone else to view....but that is just me

lushgirl69 49F

10/17/2005 5:39 am

Couldn't agree with you more.....I am still trying to work out the kinks in my web cam....no pun intended....

rm_xiko1981 35M
2 posts
10/22/2005 1:38 pm

I love taking photos, I've also made some videos, but I think photos are more erotic, make a erotic video is much more difficult than making an erotic photo

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