Two Appaloosas  

happysinglegirl 41F
30 posts
2/27/2006 3:29 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Two Appaloosas

I once believed the moon above the desert
blurted escape routes to me across the sand,
and that the musky scent of hurt, or murder
would unfold my excuses. Selfish and bland,

I thought a one-legged dance through interstellar space
would sustain a misfit. I mean, I did finally learn
to move on. How do I know this voice unfamiliar to my ear?
You must have grown choices like turnips

in the black soil of your yard, and this day,
I am a spotted horse cut from the herd,
running at the red crack of sky
where there are countless Appaloosa streaks
above the hoof horizon and for you, ugly man,
I have broken free.

goldinboy2 59M

2/27/2006 6:08 am

Nicly writen

AltumHunksUnite 53M

2/27/2006 6:29 am

My standard answer to these kinds of questions is.... this site is marketed to men as a no-strings, no-questions or answers, no-callbacks, no-commitment sex site. The women are portrayed as hot, ready, horny, and willing to have sex anytime, anywhere at the drop of a hat, and when it doesn't work out that way, yes, there is a certain degree of frustration. However, this frustration does not give the man a license to verbally abuse their intended targets. They need to get over it and move on. Nothing is accomplished by such behavior other than to ruin it for the rest of us.

Regarding your belief that men have misunderstood your intentions based on your main photo... I can understand why they would be confused. But there it is in your profile, which states in plain English that you are not looking for a sexual relationship. With that said, I can tell you that I've browsed dozens upon dozens of profiles where the woman has a provocative picture, perhaps with a penis in her hand or mouth with a dildo shoved inside her, while in her profile, she claims to be shy and reserved. Uh, yeah, okay. Other profiles that say they want "Men for 1-on-1 sex" and yet the rest of their profile has "NO MEN! NO MEN!" plastered all over it. Mixed signals indeed.

Hey, I'm well aware of the bullschmidt you ladies have to put up with as members of this site, and I sympathize. My intention is not to belittle your concerns, but only to give you some thoughts from the male perspective. Good luck with the blog. I enjoy reading it.


Let me drive. I like the view

AltumHunksUnite 53M

2/27/2006 6:30 am

Ooops, I meant to post this in your previous entry. Geez, talk about not reading.

Let me drive. I like the view

happysinglegirl 41F

2/27/2006 1:53 pm

Cleavis: First why a standard answer? Because I am a standard member and do not pay the masters of this site? Or something else you'd care to explain in detail? Why do you believe this standard answer will satisfy me, of all people? I am a little amazed. But this kind of rigid thought with no opportunity for new development is exactly why I do not date off this site. I will frustrate men with standard answers. Sorry, but I've already been up the tree and I'll stay out of it. However, since I am a sexual curious person, I must ask the question???? Why do women prompt standard answers???? Especially like this where I as an individual is obscured behind the weight of male objectives. There is a free standing category on this system for erotic email fantasy exchange, but you know, every few men write me about their fantasies here, almost never actually, are men that vulnerable on this system. Indeed, men resort to the most simplistic approaches, fuck-me-now kinds of presentations. SO why are they offended by a little pic when they offer raw, I assume unprotected sex because we don't know each other, for kicks. Why am I held to a higher standard then they are, total sluts ready to fuck a stranger for kicks. It is pretty cheap, so does the thrill I get posting a breast shot of, guess what, myself, so offend these cavalier males ready for, I presume, anything and everything, I could launch at them, get this, so long as I agree to their version of hot sex. It is worth thinking about in 2006, eh?

happysinglegirl 41F

2/27/2006 1:54 pm


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