HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!  

guitarguy1313 34M
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1/12/2006 9:52 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm new to this site and i was wondering if someone could give me some pointers on how to get around here. Much obliged.

imBambi 58M/50F

1/12/2006 10:50 pm

Ok, just remember - you asked...

Your profile: You need to write more about yourself. Remember, there are at least 10 as many men as there are women. Thus, you are in competition. Your profile serves as your ad. Look at some other profiles (men) for ideas. You might even check out the one by AtomicKisss - he has a good one.

Exposure: There are 3 main ways to get noticed on AdultFriendFinder: When people do searches (that's why you profile is important). 2) Writing blogs. 3) Asking for advise/providing advise in the advise section.

Blogs are important because people will sometimes look at a person's blog to get a better "feel" for their personality, level of intelligence, type of humor, etc. Also, if your blogs are very witty and creative, you will start to develop a following and more people will notice you.

Advise: Just the same as blogs... if your name appears on nearly a daily basis, people will eventually check out your profile just to see who you are.

E-mails: When contacting someone, always be polite and treat the woman like a lady. NEVER say something like "I'd love to fuck you."

E-mails: The "typical" e-mail might read: I saw your profile and was attracted by ____ (something about their personality - not their looks). We seem to have similar interests in ____ (music, books, etc.) and from reading your blogs, I know we share the same sense of humor. I would like to get to know you better. Perhaps we could meet over a cup of coffee some day.

Contact me if you have any questions.

Good luck & welcome to AdultFriendFinder!



1/14/2006 5:02 pm

The previous advice by another member is good advice if it were for another site, but no matter what you do to your profile, it will not help. There are a lot of women on this site and only a small percentage of us are actually serious about meeting. That goes for the men on this site as well. My advice would be to also try to put an ad up a few other sites, so at least you will have a better chance of meeting somene.

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