My thoughts on what I need to change  

gsmiley6 56M
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4/7/2006 7:32 am

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11/20/2015 6:32 pm

My thoughts on what I need to change

Hey all! Last night I began to look at what it is in a woman that has always attracted me. Of course looks have always played a role in the initial look. Sometimes it was the flamboyant actions that caught my eye. Now I'm not sure if I want to be in another relationship, not sure that the benefits out weight the heart ache. I think I want to work on myself changing the things that have left me alone today. This is a tall order because I have to take a hard look at myself, seeing all my faults. There is an upside to this self inspection in that I will need to list my good traits as well. In the end I may discover that the women that I've been involved with are as much to blame as myself. So here I am looking at the things that attract me to a woman. can we reprogram our search patterns so that we find a better mate? Can we get away from the looks, the fun loving actions, those things that really reveal so little about the person. I'll post a question to see what others think.


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