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greg371967 49M
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8/29/2005 10:06 am

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im a nice guy here looking to make some friends but when i email someone i get the auto response or no response at all women say they want a nice guy but always go back to the one thats bad for them why

rm_Balanon2 48M
193 posts
9/3/2005 3:55 pm

I'm guessing it's because we are boring and predictable. Women love drama, even if it's bad for them. They don't 'think' about the men they are going to be attracted to. Women meet an asshole and he starts taking them on the emotional roller coaster ride. Also, there may be something to being able to blame everything that goes wrong on the man. If she was with a nice guy and he leaves, she's going to have to feel some responsibility.

I think another component is that 'nice' can come off as subserviant. This doesn't play well with the female's evolutionary need for a strong, dominant male. Since, this attaction is hard wired into our physiology, no amount of rationalizing on yours or her part is going to help.

And this site is set up to remove any need for the woman to have any social graces. They can be uncaring bitchs with total impunity. Most don't go there, but just the fact that they can I think pulls the general population toward the dark side. See this thread for more on the subject --> women answer the men


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