Love vs Lust : Just my thoughts on the subject  

gplsn 50M
4 posts
7/9/2005 6:17 pm

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Love vs Lust : Just my thoughts on the subject

After being here a while now, I can say I have met some very good people. Some I will continue friendships with for my lifetime.
I have watched and learned about many here and can say that I am lost as to the direction some of us are taking. What is the purpose of Meeting potential partners? does lust drive us or is it the possibility of finding love?
I can draw from my own experience and say I wanted an outlet to meet new friends, and finding the perfect partner was a hopeful but non expected anticipation. Lust was never a driving force in my adventures in chat or at local gatherings. And yet I watch the behavior of people and ask myself if a life of lusting is fulfilling? it seems to some to be a staple of life and this I find difficult to understand.
Does lust overcome love? I see love compromised by lust...why? Is the need to satisfy our sexual needs more important than that of our emotional needs? or is this a way to cover up what we lack emotionally?
Maybe I think about it to much, but I cant help but want to fill my life with love, friendships and happiness. I cannot imagine that we all do not desire the same thing....Maybe I am wrong and some of us have had our fill with a regular 9 to 5 life, and now is the time to let go our inhibitions. But I believe in the end this will never satisfy any of us. I will always choose love over lust, but that is just me. I do not judge or condemn anyone or the life they choose. I am just searching for answers from some that I have gotten to know, and wonder if I am odd in my way of thinking.
Anyway, to all my friends: Thank you for your friendships, advise and loyalties, and to those I have not met yet: Look forward to meeting you soon. Take care, and God Bless.....

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
7/10/2005 12:22 am

Love is not something you look for, it just happens unexpectedly, and when it does, you will know it, and will not question whether it is love or last.
Meanwhile, why not enjoy love may or may not happen in your lifetime.

kissablemeinmn 48F

7/12/2005 12:02 pm

GPLSN - welcome to blogging sugar!!! You will find it to be a wonderful outlet.

My life is full of love, family, friendship, and happiness. But I beleve there is always room for more of that. I also think that there is nothing at all wrong with having some lust tossed in there from time to time.

For me it only enhances the rest of my life. But thats because it's all in the open

If my lusty activities ever compromised anything else in my life - then it would have to stop.

It's all about personal balances - finding what works for you

I wish you well my friend. I always have and always will. Love & kisses to you. I can't wait to see ya tonight!!


minnie_no_mickey 43F

7/12/2005 3:01 pm

I believe that you are right about most of us searching for love, regardless if it is out of the need to fulfill our deepest wildest desires of lust. Yet there are some of us who want love, happiness, and a life full of memories. Like many I'm sure I came here in search of friendship at first and yes I was looking to complete myself in some form unbenowns to myself. Yet I have met tons of friends most only in chat yet a few out of chat and I do not regret being here I only wish that one day I will find the happiness I am looking for regardless if it is here or out in the "Free World" so to speak. I think it is a good thing to ponder on your thoughts and see just where you stand in this world of chat and IMing called AdultFriendFinder. Yet in order to truly find happiness you must look deep into your own heart cause we are truly the only ones who posses the ability to be happy and content with our lives. I look forward to meeting you in the future as I look forward to meeting all those I call friends here on AdultFriendFinder. I agree with Kiss in life it is all about balance and what makes you happy. We all have out boundaries and our limits yet at times life can cause you to reflect upon them more so then other times.

Well I hope my rambling made sense and I hope to get the pleasure of meeting you soon. Till then Huggers

sunny_punkin 46F

7/16/2005 5:00 pm are so right,and you and I will never understand what motivates people to do what they do...perhaps they are never satisfied with life,and always want more...a reminder more is not always better...You are missing out on alot if you can't be happy with 1 partner..

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