anyone care to share their thoughts?  

gotyourattention 40M
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3/28/2006 5:37 am

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anyone care to share their thoughts?

i've been married going on 4 years, and my spouse's sex drive is a roller coaster. more downs than ups, and i'm persuing sex outside of marriage. just wondering what other married people on AdultFriendFinder have done to satisfy their sex drive, since their spouse doesn't. Its not that its bad sex, its just few, sometimes far between, and the same each time...

heavensent1123 52F

3/28/2006 6:35 am

I'm going to play the devils advocate here, I know, it's so contrary to the screen name but wtf
Affairs outside the marriage, without your sposes knowledge, NOT a good idea.
You say that the sex has been getting few and far between, and it's always the same. Did you ever stop to consider maybe thats exactly why it's getting further and further apart, because it is same ole same ole? What kind of communication do the two of you have? In other words does she have any fantasies that she's been keeping to herself, fearing maybe you'll think she's too kinky?
I told a friend once, he was getting into the same thing your considering, I told him, unless your willing to loose everything you have don't do it.
If thats not the case then maybe you should consider talking to her about an open marriage or swinging, that way it's no big secret and when/if the day comes that she finds out you had an affair, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

1973GAL 43F

3/28/2006 6:44 am

You are rite where I am for the same exact reason...I give my hubby what he needs at home and I just venture out to find a bit more for myself as sex is boring at home...keep going and you will find the one that will rock your world!

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