Why is it so Hard to Find an Honest Relationship?  

golden6464 52M
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4/4/2006 1:38 pm

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Why is it so Hard to Find an Honest Relationship?


I'm a 41 year old divorced man who has been around and has yet to find "the one". I hear from friends that there are so many lonely, friendly, and charming women who deeply want a relationship and yet the field seems a desert.
I've always looked inwards when evaluating the qualities of a woman and have felt chemistry with many, but they've turned out to have some wicked flaw that keeps me away.
By flaw I do not mean children or having been married (I was myself for almost 15 years), but I mean women who have no self-esteem or intelligence or desire to improve themselves if in a bad situation/relationship.
When I do find a woman with goals, beauty, and desireability, it all comes down to money. If my net worth isn't over $800,000 I can walk.
I have no issues with couples who have a physical relationship if they feel chemistry in the short term.
How could I? My first sexual encounter was with a call girl at the age of 24.
Why? I've never been to one since, but I wanted my first sexual experience (intercourse) to be with a stunningly-beautiful woman physically and she was. She was 30 and the most gorgeous physical specimen I had ever seen. Dark blonde, fit, full breasts, a perfectly-formed ass, a lightly-trimmed bush and an incredibly tight vagina. Her endurance level went on for over an hour, longer than any 24 year old man of whom I have ever heard.
I've since learned that sex can be and has turned out to always be better with someone with whom I have an emotional connection. That may go against the grain of this site, but so be it.
So, that's my frustration and short (sort of) story. I'll see if what I have to say rings a chord with anyone.

golden6464 52M

4/4/2006 2:53 pm

Thanks; I appreciate the vote of confidence regarding my opinions. I've never liked to complain, but sometimes you just have to let go of the feelings.


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
4/4/2006 8:58 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

I hope you find what you want here. But don't be too impatient....it takes time. You will find that you can make that emotional connection. Best of luck.


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