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goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
9/24/2005 4:29 pm

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You wanted it...you got it...

After looking over the pics that where done, I found a few I did like and I am sharing with you. Most will be able to the rest of these in my album.

Some say I am a bit picky. I like to think I am just very choosey. Nothing wrong with that. At least...I don't think there is anyway.
I say this because I am noticing more and more people lowering their standards just for a one night stand.

It usually falls on those lines of...

They sign on to become a member of AdultFriendFinder and think...in like 4 days I am going to get laid.

On average, most don't get a reply for 4 weeks. They may get one or two replied before then, but those where from people who really didn't fit what they wanted. So, they delete the message.

Then...4 months go by. They are even more upset at not getting the replies they wanted. They start emailing...and people don't answer..at least not right away.

Then they get lucky and someone responds. Their hope has been renewed and they are happy once more.

Month 8. The person that responded no longer talks to them anymore. They have chatted to a few others who aren't excited about meeting. At this point most people turn off their profiles and go back to the bar and club scene...

Those who stick it out end up lowering their standards just to get a date. This is the part that really upsets me. WHY?

I don't think anyone realizes that they are unique and that just because they didn't find a sex partner right off the bat, doesn't mean they aren't worth the wait!!
They start thinking they aren't worth it, that maybe they have too high of expectations and then they lower their standards. Next thing they know, they are in bed with some jerk off like the guy that emailed me not long back. T.J.

It is sad really. I want to remind each and everyone of you not to get uptight. Not to get impatient. Things will happen when they happen. Don't stress about it. I know it's tough..and I know you want for things to happen...but just hold on...

HUGS~~~MANDY


Always The Bitch


nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
9/24/2005 7:20 pm

I agree no one should lower their standards...being desperate is pathetic and you tend to make too many mistakes when you dont think because of that desperation..its sad..I know to alot of people say my exspectations are high for what I like physically..especailly when they take a look at me and think Im crazy...they seem to think that fat people belong with fat people...thin belong with thin....who makes up these rules anyway..Or what about guys who like larger women...I have never made fun of any of my friends for dating larger women...if its what they like and they are happy thats whats important...Soceity deems thin beautiful and because Im not thin I dont deserve what I like...but I bet that if the world was the other way around and fat was considered beautiful I would be thought of as nuts because I dont follow what other people tell me is beautiful or not...I make my own standards and live by them...and no one is going to tell me what to like and what not to like but me PERIOD...

BTW...I have to comment...seeing that body pick of you...you are actaully alot thinner than I imagined...not that it matters is was just a surprise to me..I still think you're cool


digdug41 49M

9/24/2005 7:59 pm

I dont know if I even want a sweety on the side it fucks with my recovery so I'll just settle for making friends and if it lead to something else then I'd have to see from there where I'd go. I just hope that the female could hold a conversation about something other than herself no one too vain that kills it for me

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


rm_ericingeneva 39M

9/24/2005 8:13 pm

Don't you have color in Kentucky stop taking pictures with the night vision lens on.


bubamanboys 41M
1 post
9/24/2005 11:26 pm

soy argentino y estas realmente para aserte el amor asta aserte pedir por favor que te deje.


rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/25/2005 3:14 am

wow! i love this photo -- you look like a naughty imp!! think i'll start calling you "mischief" ... when you meet someone for whom you have lowered your standards you never end up having a good time anyway!!



[blog freelove999]


AlbertPrince 57M

9/25/2005 3:41 am

Fortunately, I started with such poor standards that I never had to lower them. But it's all agame isn't it, and once you figure out how to play the game, it's easy to win!


expatbrit49 62M

9/25/2005 4:09 am

OMG, people join this site to meet people for sex! I thought it was all about writting a Blog. LOL.

Nice picture Mandy, hope we all get to see you in person in Chicago

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


xx_44DD_xx 51F

9/25/2005 5:36 am

I'm with expat! Here for the blog........

Hope to see you at the convention as well.


hotiowastud2 53M

9/25/2005 8:13 am

For me it's all about the blog and sorting things out for me in a good marriage that has growth potential sexually. I'm on alone right now but envision a day we're on as a couple. I would like some people to repond, but I've been on long enough to know that's probably not going to happen.

BTW - I love your picture!


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/25/2005 9:48 am

nightstalker--- Thanks for being real and true to yourself. And thanks for the compliment.

digdug--- I hope you will get to hold a conversation with me someday. I actually get compliments for being able to always have something to talk about.

Eric--- It's a tease...isn't it? I do it for one reason. I like night time. I like night vision. I also don't think anyone should see a goddess in true color. Now..lucky you I had already decided on putting up a color picture...or I would have taken offense to this little comment and said...FUCK YOU I'M not showing anything other than that. Keep your pants on.

Freelove--- Exactly. and..mischeif is fine with me.

Albert Prince--- Amazing that your standards were low to begin with...why is that?

Expat--- Yeah..me too...but don't tell anyone...And I'm glad you liked it.

44DD--- You are?

hotiowastud--- I understand. And thanks...I'm glad you do..

HUGS~~~MANDY

Always The Bitch


dano6332 56M

9/25/2005 11:44 am

Mandy, I love the new photos and agree. You summed up my path well except I did not lower my standards. Instead a wonderful friend directed me to the blogs and now there seems to be no rush.


rm_ericingeneva 39M

9/25/2005 6:32 pm

As someone that trained to use real night vision and even had to drive numerous times wearing them the sex appeal is just totally lost on me. Night vision makes me think of me and 10 guys in the back of a big dirty truck holding their guns. Now you might find that appealing but I don't lol.

but I was just being a pain in my first post!


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/25/2005 8:56 pm

mmmm...really nice picture.
so nice, i forgot to read the text!...

ps: xx


Luvwetcunt1000 48M
1258 posts
9/26/2005 2:14 am

Nice picture Mandy. And I like your blog. I came on this site hoping for an easy catch of something on the side. It never happened that way. Since I discovered Blogland, really don't care anymore. Now I just sign on to read the blogs and leave comments if I feel like. From reading blogs I'm getting to know a lot of people with different characters. It's interesting and I enjoy reading all these blogs daily.


anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/26/2005 6:41 am

mandy ~ you are friggen awesome..I love the way you think....oh and nice pics..


SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/26/2005 10:15 am

Goddess~
I'm loving the pics babe. I have noticed that a lot of people expect me to lower my standards once I meet them in person. you know, like "oh I'll tell her a bunch of stuff that sounds great, and when we meet it just won't matter." Well nice try, buckwheat, but it doesn't work for me that way. So far my standards remain intact.
~SDA

~Angel


rm_TheHooligan2 44M
409 posts
9/28/2005 3:55 pm

mandy you look fucking cute. I mean so damn cute looking that I'm not kidding


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