The truth about Women and AFF  

goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
10/16/2005 11:24 am

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The truth about Women and AFF

Ok...I am so sick of this label being put on us women because we are here looking for sex..or someone to fulfill a void..or both.

Here is the truth about the women included

First of all...we are not sluts..nor are we whores.
We chose this site because we want to make the search for a partner a little easier. Everyone can go to a bar or party...but with life the way it is today, who really has time for that? one likes trying to figure out who is into what these days. Sometimes it is hard for me to tell when another woman is bi...and I don't want to make a fool of myself by hitting on a woman who isn't into bi women, or threesomes. Being here is like being on other personals sites and putting up a profile there. The only that here...we can talk about sex and what we are looking for in a person...while there...we can only tell you a small amount of what we are looking for. Most of us...if not all..want to explore our sexual side. While some here are looking for various partners...others are looking for one in particular to start a "DATING SERIOUSLY" relationship.
Then of course there is me...who is looking for an extra partner simply because I want to explore that side of my sex life and married sex life.

Secondly....we are not just call girls...

Don't expect to email us and expect us to say...OH My goodness...there's a dick/puss...I can't wait to fuck...
No way that would happen in real life face to face. You are just as picky as I am. If you see someone who totally turns you aren't going to sleep with why should I?

Thirdly...we have FEELINGS

Yes...that's right...we have feelings. When we won't respond to the
"Hi..I'm John...I can rock your world...lets fuck..tonight.." letters...most men want to get mad and write us to tell us what bitch's we are {with the exception to me because calling me a bitch doesn't offend} it hurts some of the women here, while others just get pissed off...

And matter what...we are still women and should be treated with respect.

We expect the same treatment as you would give a girl you met at church. Just because we met here doesn't mean you TREAT us as Whores...or sluts.
You open our doors for us, you hold a decent conversation with us...whatever it is that gentlemen do.
You shouldn't expect to get me in bed on the first night simply because I decided to meet you . If I want to fuck you the first night...wait for me to make the moves.
And believe will know...because I will be tearing our clothes off.

I hope this gives you a little insight as to who we are. We are still humans...still women...most of us very classy women....we just happen to be a member of a sex site because we like this environment that allows us to speak our minds over the other PG rated sites that don't.


Always The Bitch

Submsvmisskitty 47F
14 posts
10/16/2005 7:42 pm

Hi Mandy, if you read my last blog from a few days ago it talk about what I went through with an old boyfriend and AdultFriendFinder ......the same shit. I went past his work today and kept my head up high. I didnt make it with the guy who was supposed to call but I feel like a million dollars. Yknow I wrote to a guy who states he only wants a one night stand. I choose him over a LOT of guys. I mean if I want a one night stand with a guy I am going to choose who I want. Oh he is a hunk!! Oh another thing I seem to find guys who think they can find a woman for ME. Like I cant choose her......Take Care Kitty

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
10/16/2005 7:51 pm

Bravo Bravo Well said Mandy *hugs*


BuxomFrau 44

10/16/2005 8:34 pm

Poor poor goddess. When will you learn that many of the men here believe that the women here should be nothing more than cum recepticles, and pussy-on-wheels? Banish this thought you seem to have about women being...oh...what's the word I'm looking for...HUMAN. Pish posh! None of that! See, thinking of women as being human would destroy the little fantasy world they live in where women are only around to titilate and serve as vehicles to mens desires. And we just can't have that, now can we?

digdug41 49M

10/16/2005 8:42 pm

well put mandy I wish that I could find a real woman up here in nyc I am not looking for just a sexual relationship I like to talk but so far I keep runnig into the tricks on here so I'm just gonna give it a rest and just enjoy blogland I jusr may find what I'm looking for here good post tho I have nothing but respect for women or my moms would bust my ass lol cya

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
10/16/2005 8:55 pm


I hope this gives you a little insight as to who we are. We are still humans...still women...most of us very classy women....we just happen to be a member of a sex site because we like this environment that allows us to speak our minds over the other PG rated sites that don't.



smackyman 46M
3845 posts
10/16/2005 9:43 pm

Nicely done Mandy! *applause* Bitch on!!

rm_readmymail 64M
8 posts
10/16/2005 9:48 pm

Hi mandy, I have no problem with you being a lady. lady's want sex too. Please excuse me for being somewhat of a chauvenist though. I never ask a woman if I can stick it up her ass. It takes away from the excitement. Would you write me off totally for that? readmymail

SoljerBlu 39M

10/16/2005 9:48 pm

Mandy, This site is way more like any bar anywhere than you think.. except the music ain't loud, so we get to talk more.. and except that as I talk to you, I don't have to waste time woundering what your nipples or bush looks like under those sexy clothes.. odds are you've already shown me. lol.
And I can't dance a nice hot tango with you right now.. and touch a dozen places on your body with a dozen different place of mine.. dang, it!
Every bar has the assholes who wander in, fuck around like idiots, get nowhere, and vanish... here, also.
But, (brutal honesty warning), you wrote, "If I want to fuck you the first night..wait for me to make the moves.".....
Doesn't this kinda reduce me to the slab hanging on the hook in the meat market..just turning slowly in the frigid air..just waiting for..."oh my. Look at that fine marbling..and the Size of those fillets!!!!"
Don't be so eager to be the 'demeaned'/'demeanor' at the same time!
Remember, a thick skin also has way more of those cool pleasure receptor nerve endings too.

five_speed 41M

10/16/2005 9:56 pm

Luvwetcunt1000 48M
1258 posts
10/16/2005 10:58 pm

You said it well Mandy!

popmuse01 35F

10/16/2005 11:42 pm

Go Mandy!!! lol. Well said! We can't help being curious about sex 'outside the box' as I call it, or having a higher sex drive than what society wants us to have! Screw the others for not having open minds! hehe

I'm leaving the site end of March. To those who want to keep in touch, see blog for details.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/16/2005 11:45 pm

Mandy, you know we're only bitch whores when we say no.

I constantly see men who would meet with Mr. Bouncer and then the pavement if they acted the way they act on here in a bar or club. Hell, they would be banned from swingers clubs the way they act on here. No means no in those places. Here, they think they can wear you down if they act like pests. Escorts would tell them to get lost if they came onto them the way they do us.

While there are decent people here, the fucktards are starting to outnumber them. It is sad and the site does nothing about the jerks who harrass you if they're gold members. *sigh*

AlbertPrince 58M

10/17/2005 2:05 am

I can accept the first two ... but feelings ... come on, you're joking, right?

hotiowastud2 53M

10/17/2005 4:02 am

Thanks for the obvious insight, but you're talking about guys who have never had much fore-thought for anything. The Let's fuck, or I'll rock your world, mentality speaks to the ego centered world they have (and always will) live in.

Some women like that, but for these guys they figure it's easier to try that route and get "slapped" than it is to try to connect to real women like yourself and "wetpantyslut2".

Keep enlightening us. It's worth it if you convert just one ego-centric pig.

womenorcpls2 39M/36F

10/17/2005 4:18 am

I liked that little post Mandy, I personaly treat women on here no differently to any other. If women on here are whores or sluts, so are all the males. Whats good for one is good for the other.

I personally hate the way in society, women who sleep around are called slags and men who sleep around get a pat on the back like it is a competition to see who can score the most.

Equal rights in everything as far as I am concered, as long as the women who work, expect to pay for drinks and things the same as a man.

rm_EE407 41F
3903 posts
10/17/2005 7:31 am

WELL SAID IDD..... very well said... couldn't have done it better myself!

Hugz EE407


10/17/2005 9:37 am


cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
10/17/2005 1:16 pm

Hi Mandy, Very good post! I totally argee with you.

Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet

gradywhite55 61M
6 posts
10/17/2005 1:38 pm

WTG Mandy, The things you said are honest and heart felt. It is nice to know what a woman thinks. So many times Men hear what we want to hear. The discrepency between the sexes sometimes is a chasm. Men who seek multiple partners are veral/playboys but should a woman seek the same pleasures she is thought of as a slut/whore and worse. I wish I could find a person like you close by. To discuss personal issues without embarresment. As a man, there is no excuse to treat a
woman as less than a

GleesFlakyShawl 50M
1620 posts
10/17/2005 1:52 pm

well Mandy i havent checked ur profile, but u can include this there,...nothing will change but ull have vented a bit more......

now meeting ladies at church......... i think i should attend church first shouldnt i?

realmom2 58M/50F

10/17/2005 2:52 pm

Thanks Mandy, can't be said often enough,(although once SHOULD be enough).

TheRealThing655 48F
9558 posts
10/17/2005 4:52 pm

What wonderful and true words...thank you!!!!

deliciousngood 64F
1666 posts
10/17/2005 6:34 pm

Very well put, Mandy. * hugs*

dano6332 56M

10/17/2005 6:48 pm

Mandy, your a big girl who I never worry about. Your very capable of protecting yourself from all the KDs and ass wipes on here but your post is absolutely right and maybe if only one guy pays attention it can help. Thanks for a thoughtful post

do I still get to spank you?

saddletrampsk 54F

10/19/2005 12:00 pm

Thanks for saying Mandy..needs to be said on here..ummm..once or twice..errr..per day

rm_Hunkdaddy10 33M
96 posts
10/20/2005 10:22 am

Great post mandy. Couldn't agree more.
Judging from your pic, any man that says that about you is just pissed that he can't have you and has a small dick complex. Enjoy yourself!!! tha's what this site is all about.

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