My orgasm....Your orgasm...our orgasm....  

goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
9/2/2005 11:31 am

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My orgasm....Your orgasm...our orgasm....

Imagine...your in the heat of the moment...and you are ready to want that feeling of release...and you only need to be pushed a bit further...

Do you see it yet? Can you feel it???

(If you are a the man line...women read the woman line...)

~WOMAN~ I am almost there...I am about ready to explode...WHAT??? He stopped??? He moved to a different position that isn't helping...WHAT THE HELL??

~MAN~ Just as I am about to let it blow...She decides to stop me and tell me she can't go on anymore.

DOESN'T that PISS you OFF? Thinking about being close and not GETTING OFF??

Now...Here is the thing. Everyone's main goal..and don't give me that shit on "pleasing my counter part" stuff the end everyone's goal during sex is to have an orgasm. It is something that leaves us with an incredible and yet addictive feeling. Take for instance...we will want it so bad...we will do and say things we normally wouldn't do...and we can get completely wild...WHY?

So I was wondering...why do we get clit rings and say SPANK ME? WHy do men often find themselves jacking off when there is not a woman around. Why do women do it? Who the hell thought of dirty talk when someone is about to cum?
I don't want the clinical mumbo jumbo about sex. I want your thoughts.

WOMEN-- How many times have you had to fake it because it just didn't happen for you?
How many times have you not faked it and as you were doing everything in your power to make sure you got yours..including talking dirty or requesting someone spank on?

MEN-- What is your driving force? Do you like it fast? Slow? Mixture of both? When you are ready to cum, are you asking for the woman to rub your nipples? Scratch her nails down your back?

Me personally....I am one of those random thoughts type people. When I am in the middle of sex, and I get close...I often find myself wanting my husband to talk to me. I will look at him and in between my moans and heavy breathing...ask him to "Talk to me." In which case he will say something along the lines of "CUm for me" and that gets me off. Don't know why? Just know that it works and hey...if the show fits right?
I have also been known when drunk and having sex to get COMPLETELY WILD. I will have spankings and even ask my husband to go as far as to go ANAL on me. There was a rule with me at one point and time that I was an EXIT ONLY. So, apparently alcohol does give me courage to do that. Once again, not sure NIKE...Just do it.
So makes these things such a turn on? Why is it that in my quest for the big O...I am wanting to do different things. Yes this was hard to come out and say, and I wonder why? Why is it hard to admit my dirty little secrets? And no, if your wondering...those aren't all. To find out just have to see for yourself.


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toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/2/2005 5:28 pm

am I the first one here again; God, I feel lucky.
Well... I like it slow... and I like it quiet, though not silent.
Whispering is more of a turn on than screaming. Besides, there's no need to wake up the neighbors- and I sure as hell don't want to be woken up by them!

Now, as for anal... well, let's discuss this another time.

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/2/2005 6:50 pm

For me its very slow, Im the romantic type in bed, its not about me when it comes to sex, yet its what can i do for her. and unlike toothysmile I enjoy hearing the lady scream in bed (as long as its not the fake OHHH yeah, bla bla bla-thats a total turn off)

This topic was brought up in one of the groups that im in last July, here is my response (So thankful for a thing called a Cut and Paste}:

im very slow and romantic, first of all the lady is first of all things, ill eat her until she explodes and her juice is all over my face and go-T.

When we get down to whose on top or bottom, im very slow, love the pressure, and the feeling of her in and out, feeling the walls of her body of within. not wanting the last pump to be the last.

Yet when the climax is extremely high and your both lost in the moment forgetting all thats around you and your just thrusting each other until the other explodes-I enjoy that to be the very last, maybe now that im blogging maybe thats why i like the slowness and the so called tease, even though its slow and pleasureable, its the quickness and climax that im waiting patiently for.


MiAmore62 49M

9/2/2005 7:50 pm

IM very verbal and always talk....i like to pund it hard....sometime slow....but im always talking..and anal....ill lick it.....lube it, and fuck it... again...always makin eye contact and talkin...and illl pull out...cum ono you...likm it off and say....."wanna taste" and kiss you with a mouthfull of my cum.... I likes ex all ways and all different ways...... Now c,mon..... touch it an cum for me.... it....

Greenguy96 43M

9/2/2005 8:55 pm

Wow, that’s a lot to think about. I do like not pleasing a women. But, I know there have been times I did not, and I've been told, boy I've been with a women who can make a guy feel like crap if you don't get her off. However, there are times I didn't care if she came or not and I seem to have a better time, even some women liked it, but as you said not all times we care about our partner. the type of sex I like depends on the mood, but the "hottest" sex is the fast, loud, scratching, but usually 1 or 2 positions, too much movement take too much thought. And I can decently feel the orgasm and the cum shooting out of me.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
9/2/2005 11:42 pm

You pose an interesting question. What is my driving force to have sex? I dont think anyone can answer that it just seems like the natural and right thing to do. As for my style Im like a mixture of both slow and fast typically fast towards the end. As I am about to exsplode what I like my woman to do is cum with me if possible but that rarely happens. Gotten lucky a couple times but typically its hard to have simultanious orgasms. Despite what you say about pleasing a partner I do kind of get off on that..watching them moan and groan with pleasure and knowing its because of me is like the biggest turn on for me, but thats me. I also like to make her scream and squeal. Volcalizeing her pleasure also gets me off. but other than that the one thing I do like when Im about to exsplode is a girl who will pull me as close to her as possible. I like beging hugged and kissed as Im about to go, She can rub or suck my nipples too that will work lol guess Im just weird

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/3/2005 7:37 am many responses...and they are so different...

Toothysmile--- Slow...does seem to be a good way. And I can see where whispering can be a turn-on.

CuteGuy--- hmmm.....Very nicely said. Now, What are your habits as far as talking dirty??

MiAmore--- You like running the show? Do you like being a dominant or do you like the best of both worlds??

GreenGuy--- Thanks for your honesty. I hear many people say, I am always in it for my partners pleasure...and blah blah blah....They never admit that there are times, that they just want to get off. Yes, I believe that sometimes, they are wanting to please their partner...I am one of those...I love to please my husband. But...I sometimes find it difficult to get off...and there are times...I just want to have an orgasm. I mean..I will admit that my motto is...If I don't get off, you don't get No, that isn't it really. I just know that when it is just a plain fuck fest with no romance to it, I want an orgasm...but when it is slow and romantic...I really don't care.

Nightstalker--- I love the double happends for us a lot. Because he knows how to work me to a level that I need to be...and then when he's about that time that I am too... are either...A. Lying to me about pleasing women...or B. A really REALLY considerate lover. I am hoping it is B.
The reason I say that is most men, when you ask them, Are all about the 'blowing the load' as they say. I don't think you are like that...that it why I think you are a generous lover.



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okyme 52F

9/3/2005 8:50 am

Yeah first woman to respond... With me, depends on the mood, like you if i`ve been drinking WATCH OUT wild woman on board,talking raw sex with a kick, then theres times i just want the romantic but hell ya i`m there to get mine to. And men theres nothing more frustrating to a woman when your going down on them to move when they are TELLING you right there right there jeeeeezzzzeeee!!The only thing I hate is damn why can`t the feeling last just a little bit longer?? maybe streach it out to a full minute! hahaahaha Once again Mandy you`ve started my day off with my Mandy girl fix! Thanks {=}{=}

okyme 52F

9/3/2005 8:52 am

P.S. Where do you get the cool pic. to go with your Blogs? Yours?

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
9/3/2005 9:21 am

Yea the double O is hard to do unless you are in tune with eachothers bodies. lucky you to your comment about A or B its definatly B....if I want to just orgasm its easier to just do it myself. But with someone else it turns me on to see them pleasured. My philosophy is this....if you go all out to please your parnter and forget about yourself and your parnter does the will reach sexual bliss like none other. Thats what I would strive for. Course I would also hope that my partner would have the drive and desire to equal my own. Makes things easier to get along that way
But what can I say Im one of a kind and proud of it

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/3/2005 11:37 am

Okyme--- I am sent various pics by my guy friend who not only draws some of them himself, he collects them. He is presently working on one of me. We decided to draw to different ones. Me in bra and undies and one nude. It will take some time...but... hope it works.
Thanks for sharing. I am pleased to see a woman finally responded..

Nightstalker--- You are one of a kind....


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MiAmore62 49M

9/3/2005 11:56 am

Goddess.... I like the best of both worlds... I would like a woman to MAKE me get on my knees for HER or for her AND a guy.... waddya think? Thanks for the reply on my blog also..... lets play! You like a little subbie????? Im there!

rm_turboman43 54M

9/3/2005 12:08 pm

Hello Baby

I m looking for a few female friends to show them a good time so if u are looking for some wild n wet times contact me soon so we can get it on with each other.

Now I want each woman here to think about what I have to offer her, we are going to meet some where to talk then while talking I will be feeling u up n getting u to a point where all u will want is to feel me up too.

after we both have the feeling out of the way we will decide where to go n get it on with each other, we go there when we get there I would remove her clothes then work my own into laying down so u can mount urself on top with ur kitty in my face n ur face between my legs.

after some licking u decide that it is time to do some riding so u mount ur kitty on my doggie to get some riding in for u are so wet u need to have me drill u out of control.

after some riding I would lay u down and mount u for some drilling of my own while I am drilling I would be sucking on ur nipples trying to make them milk if no milk there I know u will be cumming all over my doggie bathing him with ur love juices.

then when u think u have had it all I would get u on ur knees drill u from behind maybe u are a woman who likes to have ur asshole drilled as well then we would go back to the beginning where u suck me I eat u until u cant take any more.
Please contact me here so we can meet n see how long u can cum with n on me.........shaggy

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/3/2005 6:29 pm

MiAmore---hmm...I do like to get sure you wanna be a sub?

Shaggy--- Thanks for the offer...the thing isn't very nice to use someone's bog to advertise yourself. And if you would like to advertise, you should at least ask me if you can first.


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