Here are a few Questions I answered about love...  

goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
10/3/2005 9:55 am

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Here are a few Questions I answered about love...

[blog woodstockhippy] asked me these questions in an email that he sent me. I thought they were good and asked if I may post them. He agreed. Here they are...

These are good questions. Here are my answers...

1. How much of "love" do you have figured out?

Only about as much as I have uncovered. There are so many types of love that are broken down into the overwhelming sensations we feel. I would think that I know enough about love to make decisions out of love...and not enough to keep me wanting to learn more...and to stick with it.

2. How much "romance?" do you put out, and do you get the response you are looking for?

I put a hell of a lot of romance in. And...sometimes...I do get what I am looking for. I don't expect romance as much as most women would...I don't give it to get it in return, I give it to show my love and make someone happy.

3. In the middle of one of those hectic Mondays, how much of the "romance" from either of you is remembered and kept in mind?

Well...I am not sure. I know on my end...when things get rough...sometimes I go back to a memory of something that was romantic just to keep my wits about me. Sometimes there is so much on my plate..I have no time to

4. Does last weekends' good stuff count today?

Yes. Last years stuff counts for me today. It always should.


Always The Bitch

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
10/3/2005 10:56 am

yes, sometimes it does seem love is an endless lesson in humility ...

[blog freelove999]

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/3/2005 12:12 pm

Once again, the wisdom of your words would be remarkable in one twice your age.

salutations Ms Mandy


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
10/3/2005 4:48 pm

A truly wonderful post, thank you once again.
Love is so familiar and so mysterious at the same time.

dano6332 56M

10/3/2005 5:00 pm

Mandy, I absolutely agree with TTT you are so wise for someone of your years. Hell baby you know me I am a sucker for romance and love. It is all part of my nefarious scheme to rule the world by making all the women love me lol.



SoljerBlu 39M

10/3/2005 8:28 pm

I give you carte blanche to use anything I give you. Trust is not something I give free.
I ask you one more... sorry, this is a tough one..
"how close and how much can you involve yourself with other people before you lose what you have with your husband?" I don't ask this frivolously.. I have lost women in my life because I was not fully finished with others.. my last girlfriend left because I was not done with my wife..(I know that sounds ridiculous).
Be careful, my friend.. I've been here.

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

10/4/2005 10:18 am

woodstock honey,

I can get as close as I want. The term hold your friends close and enemies closer...that is kinda the aspect. See...I hold my husband on a very tight chain..and he is close. But my friends especially ones here, are closer to me. BEcause I can express certain opinions with them and other "fantasies" as well. It is a weird game of cat and mouse I am not afraid to loose. Mostly because I have faith in what my husband and I share.

Hope that answers your question.


Always The Bitch

SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
10/4/2005 3:24 pm

1 ) I haven't figured out any of it. All I know is that it hurts when you don't get enough of it and it helps when you give plenty of it out.

2 ) I am a romance junkie. I am constantly romancing my fiance, my children, my self, I think that romance is for everyone. Most of the time the response I get is for them to push me away with laughter or jokes, thinking that I am silly. But sometimes it pays off with a hug or kiss or some romance in return.

3 ) Every little bit of romance I get is remembered. I have 4 kids and a full time job so every day is a hectic Monday. I will admit most of the time I think my fiance takes the things I do for granted, but I know when I don't or can't do them it is missed and noticed right away. I am appreciated.

4 ) It always counts. Forever.


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