Drunk or Sober?  

goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
11/9/2005 11:07 am

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Drunk or Sober?

When I was 16, I would babysit for my neighbors who had two small children. The father was a very good friend of my mother's and was very fond of me. He pulled me aside one day and told me that I needed to beware alcohol as I got older and went to parties. His words were

"Any kind of alcoholic drink will make a woman wetter than anything else. So...as you get older...watch yourself if you get drunk."

In some ways, I believe his words are true. Mostly because women who are drunk tend to not think before they act. So if some hot guy(or any guy that has good looks with the aid of Tequila) touches the right spots...you may end up in bed with them.
I have not tried any drugs and so...I don't know what the effects would be to drugs and sex.

But what I wonder is....

Is sex better when your drunk or sober?

Some say they have the wildest sex when they are drunk...and others say their best sex was when they were sober...So think back and tell me if your best sex experience happened while you were drunk....or while you were sober.

Do you think alcohol enhances sex?


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rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
11/9/2005 1:10 pm

IMO alcohol does not enhance sex (unless u r sloshing whisky all over someones naked body, which is great fun; a little whisky down your throat and on the cock definitely makes it go down easier too )... however, marijuana most def improves sex... ... in the way of lose total sense of distinction between another body and yours...

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expatbrit49 62M

11/9/2005 1:23 pm

Mandy, I think a drink or two loosens both partners up jut a bit, but getting loaded in no good, evern if it is fun at the time you cant remember

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rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
11/9/2005 2:45 pm

Oh absolutely better sober! No doubt in my mind. Like Ex says, a little alcohol does loosen a person up. However by nature of what it is, it also decreases nerve ending feeling. Kind of defeats the purpose, lol. Personally I prefer to take a little extra time to do the loosening up part naturally, and then be 100% there for the good stuff.

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Greenguy96 43M

11/9/2005 4:10 pm

The best sex I have had I've been sober, however I have had great sex drunk. It can really depened on the mood I'm in.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
11/9/2005 4:13 pm

I do not think that alcohol enhances sex. In a small amount it
may help people overcome their (socially induced) stress. I still
think that good wine is part of a good diet, though, and a good
meal brings partners to a good mood!

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
11/9/2005 4:56 pm

Drunken sex sucks. It's sloppy and clumsy. Not to mention, you know that old expression that when someone is really drunk, they're feeling no pain? Yeah, well drunken sex also means your nerve endings aren't as sensitive to touch. Alcohol deadens and dulls feeling.

I do agree with FreeLove. Pot can heighten sensation.

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
11/9/2005 5:18 pm

*PERK!* Pot sex? WOO-HOOO!!!

Actually, a little wine can make me more receptive/uninhibited, but for heightened sensation, nothing like good ol' THC

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

bardicman 50M

11/9/2005 5:51 pm

I think, for the biggest part, Alcohol removes the reservations of the parties involved. Unless of course someone is just totally to drunk to know better.
I refuse to have sovenly drunken sex.

I am not dead yet

rm_ericingeneva 39M

11/9/2005 7:14 pm

I've never fucked drunk so I don't know. But on the flip side having a drunken partner really depends on how drunk that partner is and how they handle booze.

I'd say if 10 was as drunk as you can be without being dead... and 8 was the point you reach before most normal people can't walk... and 6 was that really loud you think your cool and can do anything point... and 4 is the I'm just drunk enough to not realize these taste really bad... and 2 is I'm just past being buzzed point...

I'd say there's some potential for good sex from 4 down... especially if a 30 minute no drinking break is involved. Now 6 and 5 are tricky... 6 and 5 is that range where some woman will practically a man. Thing is in the 5-6 range I've heard of a woman that rode a guy for 30 minutes without his dick even being hard... when she realized he was soft she was... damn baby you cam quick. She went to the bathroom and never cam back... she passed out. 5-6 is bad... really bad... 4 and down... it seems to mostly depend on the girl. Some it deadens the senses. I also knew a girl that couldn't cum sober she just could not relax enough to get off if she was sober... but 5 shots and 15 minutes of oral and she was squirting all over. I don't think there's any solid ryhme or reason to it.

I don't like drunken sex for myself but I've know a few girls that were no fun in bed when they were sober. I think it all depends on the people involved and the level of drunkenness

rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
11/9/2005 8:09 pm

A few drinks will relax both of you and make you uninhibited, but I don't want to be drunk when I have sex; I want to be able to remember the fun I had.

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
11/9/2005 9:47 pm

I'll take my sex sober thanks. I want to be able to remember every back scratching, gasping, swearing moment of it all...

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
11/9/2005 10:16 pm

When you say "sex"... this can only mean the animal activity..

might as well speculate about what cows think..

Terms like "better or worse" are thus meaningless to me...

okyme 52F

11/9/2005 11:05 pm

I don`t remember

TaZmAnIa2002 37F

11/9/2005 11:18 pm

I'd hafta say Sober, How ya gonna know if it was great sex if you cant remember it...

tillerbabe 55F

11/10/2005 12:00 am

oh ..whew....I feel FREE! lemme breath in some CLEAN BLOG air....just a minute, (inhales deeply)..ah.. yes this is how it should be....yes..yes...
Ok I'm ready.

I may lose friends for this, but my best sexual expereince was when I was on ecstasy...yup, I've "done" it folks...and THAT is when I had my 23..or5 or 6...orgasms in one day....one right after another...and again...and then some more...

The last time I was really drunk, (with a bunch of other Firemen...trying to "keep up"; i was...) I ran into a door, knocked myself out, fell face down on the pavement and broke my nose and I was "attended to" by a bunch of Firemen with "beer goggles" on. So much for calling 911.
No, I did NOT have sex that night!

bear77344 60M
103 posts
11/10/2005 12:44 am

I've found alcohol decreases women's inhibitions so in that respect alcohol has improved the sexual experience sometimes. In moderation though, it isn't that good if either partner is really drunk.

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
11/10/2005 5:18 am

As everyone else has said, beer, wine, spirits, et al, do not enhance sex, an usually makes it less enjoyable.

I disagree w/FreeLove and MissAnn, dope does not work for me at all; I mean, I hate a pot high anyway, so....

X? I would imagine women would have great sex it, but it sucks for guys. It makes you really randy, but also precludes you from doing anything about it, eh?

The only recreational drug that I ever found to increase my sexual pleasure was some really good acid.

Can you still get acid anymore? It doesn't seem like it's available anymore... but then, I haven't bought drugs at all in many years.

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
11/10/2005 5:38 am

hmmm, tiller, never fucked on E, but that drug is a definite NO NO for me -- i cried for a week after taking it -- about sod all, it was horrible, so i will never take it again!

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MillsShipsGayly 51M

11/10/2005 7:07 am

Only time I thought I had good drunk sex, my partner told me afterward that she thought she would be sore for days. It ocurred n Denver and thus the term "being denvered" came into being. I never worked so hard for one damn orgazm. So, have never had a whiskey dick experience, but damn close .... thank goodness for denvering.

I'll take mine with 1 or 2 glassesplease

Tiller... ecstacy huh .. guess you made good on the name.... a long time ago, I did it on the white stuff ..with red wine to smooth it out all night

Too much alcohol is BAD

dano6332 56M

11/10/2005 1:32 pm

Tiller 25 or 26 DAMN

SOBER for me every time. I love a glass or 2 of nice wine (Shiraz,Merlot etc) but I want to remember it and her later

Arc_Angel2112 42M

11/10/2005 11:54 pm

Mandy-I think at one point there were few drugs and drinks I didn't do(being a professional musician,it's a job requirement,lol)and had sex roughly 2 to 4 times a day in that state,but I can say from me now the woman is the only drug I need, I like to have all my senses and sensitivity,as for the women I prefer they haven't drank but there's a certain level where I'll just put them to bed,tuck them in and wait for another day...Sex is a contact sport and you need to be able to play right or don't get on the field,you might get hurt,lol. That and I know I'm not able to give my best when drunk so I'd definitely say No drugs or Alchol thanks!...F,H,L-Mick

mrgrimshade 44M

11/11/2005 3:04 am


My best experience was when my partner was drunk (5-6 drinks?) and I could barely walk (hee hee) but we lasted a long time and she got right down nasty with me


gotta love the free drink cruises

Arc_Angel2112 42M

11/11/2005 11:14 am

grim,thats hillarious....and I agree it can definitely have a freeing effect on women.Most of the women I ever meet are drunk,being a musician at working in bars kind of comes with the territory! I've passed on a few fun nights because they were too drunk(I run in a alcoholic crowd)so I'm not talking just some drinks these girls tried to compete and had many shots,mixed drinks and atleast two beers a hour!

hotiowastud2 53M

11/12/2005 6:10 am

I think it does. I actually get a "Gobstopper" effect after six or seven drinks. I like it because it drops my inhabitions and tendency to not be the "Pig male". I'm more of a Caring Pig when drinking, but definately bolder before, during and after the first orgasm.

I definately like it and I like it when my wife is drunk, because she talks dirty, gets into a variety of positions and we have our rougher sex at that time.

Arc_Angel2112 42M

11/13/2005 1:57 pm

My ex wife turns into a total freak when drunk,problem is she has no stamina!

digdug41 49M

11/13/2005 6:01 pm

sorry for the late entry I have been having difficulties I have had sex high and sober more high than sober so it wasa big switch for me but now it is wonderful,it took a long time for it to happen though

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luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
11/13/2005 6:18 pm

Hmmm...I'll have to take the 5th <wink>, I don't remember <wink>!

Well, it all depends on the circumstances, there was this private rock festival-orgy that was just too insane to describe...but...there was this time, no make that two times, no make that three times, no, hell I don't know how many times exactly a special lady friend of mine and I kicked up our heals and painted Pioneer Square (Seattle) red until the wee hours of Saturday mornings, and then made furious love clear through Sunday.

Then, there was another special lady in my life that was extremely prim and proper, never drank anything at all...she composed symphonies with her tongue in bed...you had to be there.

Hmm...I'd say that it depends upon the people and the circumstance.


QuiteAGoodHandle 51M

11/15/2005 2:03 am

I think the best sex you can have is when you are stone cold sober. The body produces its own pleasure chemicals as you get aroused and alcohol gets in the way. Having said that, I've had sex with alcohol, from small amounts to being plastered. There is of course the ill-fated alcohol droop that males must watch out for as the penis becomes desensitized when drunk. Before that stage, it can be an advantage in pleasuring the woman longer. I've had experiences where a woman was so drunk that she passed out in the middle of a shag. She was comatosed. Another incident was where I got lucky and 3 tipsy ladies decided that we would have a 4-some. I had a great night that night I can tell you, and there is no way the women would have done it without the alcohol.

So, alcohol can be an advantage or a disadvantage, and I'm sure many of us have many tales to tell ....

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