Attention Bloggers....Here is what I think about a certain member....  

goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
9/20/2005 6:59 pm

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Attention Bloggers....Here is what I think about a certain member....


As you all are well aware....I take up for my friends in any and every way possible. Here is who is on my shit list today.

His Handle...hansarde

This is what happened....

My Best Friend.....and someone I am dying to get into bed with.....was emailed by this guy and the email was just plain rude. Her name is


This jerk off sent her the following message

-----"you are 5'1 and a size 14 but that is only "a little extra padding"? How is that little?
hansarde ----

And yet in his profile he says

"I don't care how you treat the rest of the world but I will treat you with respect and consideration, I deserve the same in return."

What I want to know is...Where was the respect and consideration that this woman deserves?

Now it's time for my famous "BITCH RAN"

For someone who treats others with consideration and respect, what you wrote was anything but. I think you are so frustrated at not getting any responses, that you are trying to take it out on other women. Got News for ya, no woman in their right mind likes being talked to this way, shit fucker, and you should know better.
You will not get any responses if you email all your women like this. So FUCK OFF and leave her be.

I have SEEN this woman with my own EYES and I can tell you personally...She is Beautiful....
And I am picky about the women I choose...

Sure, this really isn't none of my business...but I am the GODDESSOFBITCHES and I do as I want to and today you fucked with the wrong chick.

So you are now on my shit on my blog.


Always The Bitch

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/20/2005 9:04 pm

I'm consider myself to be a "little extra padding" and I know I'm not big by any means. So I took extra offense to his case you didn't notice...


Always The Bitch

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/20/2005 9:36 pm

Yeah, Mandy, you tell him ... and it probably is about time we start naming and shaming these fuck-wits!!!!

[blog freelove999]

digdug41 49M

9/20/2005 9:54 pm

you go girl! tell'em where the meat and potatoes are at

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_NotSoRandom 30M
3 posts
9/20/2005 9:58 pm

Well well well, I see someone has a personality on her.

Well I tell ya this, GOOD JOB.
Shitheads deserve no quarter.
By the way, thanks for your post on my blog It made my night.. sadly having finally checked the responses a few like 11days late... I was unable to thank you sooner... but Im glad I got to read this one I like a girl with character

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
9/20/2005 11:23 pm

Mandy, I get this all the time. These guys think anyone with more meat on her than Kate Moss is fat. I personally don't find all ribs attractive on men or women.

Now, have you checked this guy's profile? He has a nice green check next to my body type. So obviously he doesn't have qualms about fat chicks. She simply wrote something in her profile that turned him off. I have no idea, it's saying she removed the profile. Not that that means anything, that keeps happening to my profile.

Now, check this fucktard's pictures. I've never seen someone so in love with himself. He has really mean and angry eyes too. He looks like a potential wife beater, if you ask me. Something about him is a real turn off and would be, even if I didn't know what he wrote to your friend. This guy isn't even worth your ire.

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/21/2005 1:47 am

I sure hope you make it to Chicago, lol.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

AltumHunksUnite 53M

9/21/2005 7:58 am

It's always amazing (and a shame) how some men treat women they've never met.

Let me drive. I like the view

Bellefourchelove 62M

9/21/2005 8:49 am

Hey Mandy; here's hoping you have fun in Chicago--

okyme 52F

9/21/2005 12:07 pm

Well girl i`m sure he`ll be more careful next time (I hope) but just a little FYI, most men and I`m talking REAL men love a woman with extra padding....and as fro her being 5'1 and a size 14???? Girl she doesn`t even qualiyf for extra padding, too small and wtf you xtra padding?? come on thatw whats wrong with this fucked up world a true plus size isnt even until a size 20, a size 14 is perfact 12 good, anything under.......start eating more!

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/21/2005 1:31 pm

BigGirlz -- LOL! glad you liked it! and had no idea it was a particularly SA expression, so thanks for letting me know!! (of course, I am South African).

[blog freelove999]

rm_TheHooligan2 44M
409 posts
9/21/2005 3:10 pm

well well isn't this so charming how some assclowns tend to be such well assclowns.

dano6332 56M

9/21/2005 4:06 pm

Mandy, I think this is a great idea and ANYTIME these rude, inconsiderate people pop up. PUT their name out here for all to see.

SoljerBlu 39M

9/21/2005 5:56 pm

When you're looking into her eyes.. and it clicks.. and your lips meet and merge.. and the juices flow and rise... who's fat?

couplenextdoor55 42M/35F
25 posts
9/21/2005 7:45 pm

You go girl. I think that it is wonderfull that you stck up for your friend. I think that it is time for some men and some women to realize that a size two isn't the only size that is sexy or atractive. I have had two kids and I can tell you I am far from my old size but I'm still just as good in bed. Men think that its cool if they have a "few" etra pounds but for a woman its just not acceptable. Well guys the saying "size doesn't matter" applies to women too. So grow up and deal with reality not all women are a size 2 hell most of us arn't even a sze 10 either.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/21/2005 8:32 pm

Ditto Dano. Assholes.

KhaosKitty 42F
123 posts
9/21/2005 8:34 pm

*applauds loudly* Tell it, sister!

Why is it always the ones who claim to be open-minded who end up making the most closed-minded comments? Maybe it's just that we expect better of them. Bastards.

As someone else with a "little extra padding," most people I know appreciate the curves. And I love mine, so... It matters not what jerks like that say.

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/21/2005 8:41 pm

Its great that you are exposing him. I think if everyone had fear of this it may eliminate the urge to send knuckledragger emails to women.

slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
9/21/2005 10:28 pm

A size 14 is hardly huge.... he's an asshole. My guess is he just doesn't know how to deal with rejection. One time about a year or so ago....this guy sent me a was a nice/decent message, but the picture he chose to send showed him at an odd angle, and wasn't flattering..(not nude/distasteful-just goofy) anyway....I thought I sent a nice request asking if he possibly had another picture he could send and that the photo he sent was at an angle and didn't give a very good look. Well, he got madder than hell...and all of a sudden I was the queen of the fat gals...and he went on and on. I was surprised at his reaction, but also glad to see the true colors come out...and this was just because I inquired if he had another pic. So, at one point he was obviously attracted to me...otherwise why does one initiate a message?? Then when he and I'm sure there are hundreds of men out there like this...suddenly decide that you aren't attractive. Funny how that is. But to be fair...I'm sure the same things have happened to the men. I thought it was funny once the shock wore off...which was maybe all of 3 or 4 min's. LOL.... Poor prick....I bet he won't ever hook up. Serves him right. Glad you blasted him.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

Luvwetcunt1000 48M
1258 posts
9/21/2005 10:46 pm

Good job Mandy. Actually this shit head shouldn't be on your shit list. He should be on your fuck-off list! Or better still, print his face and turn into toilet paper!

Luvwetcunt1000 48M
1258 posts
9/21/2005 10:48 pm

Hey! Anyone here live around Cincinnati? Do me a favor. Go knock on his door and when he opens it ... kick him in the balls for me.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
9/22/2005 12:51 am

Well I admit I love small women...but thats no excuse to treat a woman that way at all or anyone for that matter...course...when compared to me everyones small LOL...hes just another A$$hole you really shouldnt let it bother you and neither should your friend he doesnt know either of you and isnt worth the time..but its good that you warn everyone else about him hehe so keep fightin...I like a fighter

tillerbabe 55F

9/22/2005 2:13 am

ick....I "feel" slimed. Can we just be "nice' to each other and not "feed" the Drama?

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/22/2005 6:39 am

one of my new favorite words.....applies to him....cockbite...hehe

maybebaby33 45M/45F

9/22/2005 9:23 am


Amen, amen, amen. I agree with your assessment and every word you said. Just remember, though, that the "Jon" you just creamed is not THIS "Jon', who would never send a shitty email like that one.

kisses, Jon

rdy2try4 51F  
3040 posts
9/22/2005 1:34 pm

WTG Mandy!! I appreciate that you are doing this. You know that "I" am also showing the peoples "TRUE" colors in MY blogs. I think the more these idiots are shown for what they do...the easier it is for the GOOD guys to get through to us. I have posted quite a few of them in my blogs at rdy2try4 listed as Rdy2try4's Info Blogs. Funny....we ALL become fat sluts and worthless ONLY after we say no for the most part. We weren't so worthless when they thought they could "USE" us, and I do mean "USE" us because they certainly did NOT care about us as people. Cum depositories is not what we are.

shychurchmouse 49F
239 posts
9/22/2005 5:31 pm

I am 5'10" and i wear a size 9 Last week I was informed that I was fat (in a chat room). Now I know in no way shape or form am I fat. I imagine to some1 who is 6'5" and weigh 110 pounds I could be considered larger. I just laughed that person off. No excuse for bad behavior it just seems to be bred in some. So sorry just not right.

32 posts
9/22/2005 7:25 pm


I knew you would get the point across. I love your viewers, not nearly as much as I adore you my sweet. Thanks for your help. He really isn't worth our time, but for someone who claim to treat women with respect and dignity...he certainly shot way off target with this one. I think it is also important that your "fans" know...he messaged me first...I, in no way, contacted him asking for his opinions...very unnecessary. BTW---I'm 5'3" and a size 12 for those of you who would like the correct stats (lol, giggle). Thanks for all the support and laughs!!!

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/22/2005 8:23 pm

Eewww... pond slime. Heck, even I don't get that kind of emails, and I am definitely a fat chick.

BTW, clothing sizes vary so much from one manufacturer to the next that what is a 10 for one brand is a 14 for another. Screw the size, if it fits right, I wear it. For the record, I am anything from an 18 to a 24 in the clothing department.

Oh, and, for the unenlightned guys... being with a big woman isn't so bad if you think about it. As I like to say: "pick a fold and fuck it, honey".

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

jungandhorney 42F

9/22/2005 8:51 pm

Bravo Mandy!!!

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
10/1/2005 7:24 am

OMG, Mandy, we LOVE chicks in chain mail! There should be a special blog set up so people like this can be advertised as the assholes thye are. Geez, I can just see the fake gold chains and 3 button open leisure shirt as I type. Everyone is right, this moron will NEVER hook up. He is an embarrasment to the male of the species. I must apologize for him and others like him for all of the true gentlemen out there. And believe me ladies, we DO exist. From one fighter to another, slice and dice, Darlin'. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."


11/21/2005 1:01 pm


saucyandstylish 46F

12/28/2006 4:20 pm

Hansarde is also known as realcincyguy. Also goes by email alias of cesious, jackisgreen, jackishere, sworn2me, afreak154, sydhoff, convrgance, gettingthebear, and most likely others.

He is a habitual cheater, liar, manipulator.

and he has no reason to bitch about overweight women. He has slept with his fair share and I have seen the pics to prove it. He does not discriminate big/small, white/black, 18/50, single/couple.

The sad part about it is he is a great father to his son. A very intellectual person. And would help any of his friends at a moments notice.

On another note I unfortuneatly know this because I was dating him for a year and found out the hard way he will never change.

his current profile on here is realcincyguy.

Good luck to the next victim.

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