goddessofbitches 41M/33F
5317 posts
1/9/2006 9:13 pm

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I MAY be banned for this, and really I don't care. I am the [handle goddessofbitches], and as long as this site runs, as long as I have friends, aquaintances, lovers, and overall readers who remain secret...I WILL have my say.

WOMEN and MEN alike come to this site for different reasons. Some want to explore the wonderful world that has become SEXUAL FANTASY. Some are here to find a partner equal to themselves. Others want to find the love of their life. There are a few here that have joined to escape their loveless, lonely lives of being married.

And yet...while we are all here looking for SEX in some way, we are not bonded as we should be. There are people here bickering, and arguing...because their point of view isn't the same as our other sisters and brothers.

MY ARGUMENT is at the ones who decide WHO should be here and WHO shouldn't. My ARGUMENT AND FUCK YOU is to those who say "This blog doesn't belong on the popular list and this blogger deserves to be shut down"

I am not afraid to say that I don't care if I am popular or well liked. I don't care if the sun rises and falls on my blog or not. I care about one thing and one thing only. Sharing my light of knowledge, thoughts, opinions and ideas with the rest of my brothers and sisters who want to meet a sex partner and have sex without being condemned to be call male sluts or female whores. We all are condemned by the outside world, by people who believe that sex is wrong. And yet, here we are, in our utopia....arguing amongst ourselves...and not standing up for the one thing that we all be respected for who we ARE!! TO BE RESPECTED FOR HAVING SEX THE WAY WE WANT TO...WITH WHOM WE CHOOSE TO!!!

This blog stems from many things. The first is my friend PrincessKarma having her blog shut down and account frozen.
Second, it seems that we [the women population] are somehow supposed to put up with B.S. from the males here who don't take rejection very well. They already believe that the stereotype of us being whores holds true for all and that we should meet them all and give them our pussy whenever it suits them!!

It seems the man population here is also treated unfairly. It seems that there are good men on this site, who for one reason or another, don't get the kind of recognition for being the good man. I know quite a few of you...and I hope that you will know that I see you for who you are. The bad apples who write us women telling us what sluts and whores we are....they are the ones that come to mind...and we take it out on the good ones by not responding to emails the way we should.

I say we need to unite as bloggers, as SEX people who want to feel the heat of passion from one another and ask that we have RIGHTS of some-kind. That we all be respected and respect one another.

If you don't like what another blogger has to say, then move on and don't go back to their blog. Use that ignore button if you must.

I am so sick to death of the bickering and the little fights in which we engage in. I have only been in one fight with a member on this site. I made sure that it didn't last long at all. I made SURE that I was the bigger person and ignored him. Which in the end, did as I hoped...he has now left me alone.

I ask of my friends, fellow bloggers, potential lovers....that you follow with me in uniting all of us together....

That we, as a group, be ADULTS.... and enjoy living world of endless pleasure and sex.... why we joined a sex site to begin with right?


P.S. I must warn you. I may be a hypocrite. I do say let us all play nicely...and yes...I am writing powerful words here. But, I vow not to play nicely with those who HURT others. I am my own knight in shining armor. I will not stand by idly and watch someone hurt one of my bloggers. Even if I don't know you, and you are being picked on and harassed...I promise to come to your defense. Because I AM a protector of feelings..because I AM a woman of my word..and because...

I don't like watching the big dogs picking on the little ones.

I will play long as everyone else does the same. I would hate to see a blogging world without the goddessofbitches

Always The Bitch

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
1/9/2006 9:33 pm

play nice no matter what anyone else does...
that is how you invoke the change...

the key is to be the change that you want to see happen.
let it all go, beautiful one...
giving energy to negative makes negative grow...and
frankly, it will also give you wrinkles on your brow
long before your time.

sending you love...
life is to short for anything else...
truth. {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

hotandhorny107 58F

1/9/2006 9:46 pm

I too stand with you. I am here for one reason and one reason only and that is to meet like minded people for friendship and physical pleasure. If I choose to have more than one partner that is my freaking business. I am very careful and choosy. If you don't hear from me it is because for one reason or another you do not tickle my fancy. Get over it. Do not keep pestering me with your emails and other attempts at contacting me. I try to let you down easy but short of saying f*ck off, you don't get the message.

Blogging is self expression. There is no reason for anyone to snipe at anyone else for expressing an opinion or thought, or start an argument with anyone here. There is enough crap going on in the real world. Let it stay there and this be a place to speak one's mind...

MaggiesWishes 60F

1/9/2006 9:59 pm

Rock on Goddess!

Well said.

warm wishes

AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
1/9/2006 10:02 pm

here here,, here

georgina666 36F

1/9/2006 10:06 pm

we may be thousands of miles apart, never crossed each other's path or read what you and i have to share in blogland, but i wholeheartedly agree that we should be allowed to express our thoughts here.

bypass or totally ignore someone's blog if you dislike it, but don't play martyr to try to get someone's blog shut down. screw that person...

i am with you honey!

RailBaron2 54M

1/9/2006 10:18 pm

Mandy- its like I tell my friends in person- "I don't Bite unless provoked." I see enough B.S.-M.S. & P.H.D. offline - I don't need to see it here.if a friend or blog niebor needs help we step up & do what we can. In the short time I've been here on this site I've seen a few bad apples- who are only hurting themselves by being disrespectfull to the ladies on here. I have made several friends on this site & I've seen a few leave because of the actions of a few.
What perpose does it serve to call names, belittle,& insult someone?
None- it just shows how insecure they are.Keep on Bloggin.

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
1/9/2006 10:24 pm

It's talk like this that just makes me like you more and more. Damn you! Good for you for standing up.

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
1/9/2006 11:08 pm

hear, hear, that guy has said some REALLY offensive things that i've seen and we want PK and her cyberbabies back! what's the plan??

[blog freelove999]

Submsvmisskitty 47F
14 posts
1/10/2006 12:19 am

Bravo Mandy........One of the girls at work called me a Pervert at work because I like to look at guys and I like to come to this site OMG. BUT she is 23 yrs old and probably is worried about what people thinks about everything she does.
I just had an old bofriend leave my house when I said no to sex but oh well good riddence.
Im glad you stood up for me. Im not one of the most popular blogs .....I dont do a lot of blogs because I am a single mom who works and take care of kids so a lot of my mind is there and thats boring everyday material but I love your blog and look forward to it when I log on. Take care ................Kitty

boydcounty 67M

1/10/2006 1:02 am

U Rock Sistah!!!!


Efilnikufecin69 47M

1/10/2006 1:34 am

I am with FreeLove999 on that! We had our differences as well, but chose to ignore the bickering and get on with our lives.

I am all for it Mandy!

AlbertPrince 58M

1/10/2006 3:43 am

Don't miss it ~ Auction! AlbertPrince signed

rm_bdi1111 44M

1/10/2006 6:11 am

Well said!! Sounds like the rules of common sense which, unfortunately, too many of us have forgotten long ago.

norprin5 55M

1/10/2006 8:27 am

i'm with ya too, Mandy! those arseholes give all of us guys a bad name...

i really miss PK, want her back!

btw, the King has been working on the dungeon in the palace...any decorating tips?

King Nor XVIII

SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
1/10/2006 9:54 am


Who can complain with someone like you in thier corner?



0rgasmgiver 42M

1/10/2006 2:39 pm

Goddess...Sounds like your a goddess for a reason...i love how you say
we are all here to enjoy the living world and and endless pleasure and sex.....because it's the can't argue with the truth.
Take should be called Goddess of pleasure...

0rgasmgiver 42M

1/10/2006 2:41 pm

Goddess...Sounds like your a goddess for a reason...i love how you say
we are all here to enjoy the living world and and endless pleasure and sex.....because it's the can't argue with the truth.
Take should be called Goddess of pleasure...

Your 0rgasmgiver

xmarksthspot 55M
13 posts
1/10/2006 2:48 pm

goddess i am new to this it sounds like you hit it straight on,
just looking to see whats out there not to be judged.

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
1/10/2006 2:54 pm

Some folks just have some growing up to do I suspect. There will always be people like that. Snaps to you for being the bigger person in your quarrel (you know snaps don't you? from Leagally Blond.)
The blogger women are the greatest. I always get a reply if I feel the need to send an e-mail. Some women that I send "telemarketing" e-mails to have been very nice (even though they are just saying no thanks.) I value that they took the time to respond. They certainly didn't need to.
As far as rejection, it hurts. There is a lot of emotion regarding sex and companionship. Lot of folks come here after long and desparate searches for someone special. They have a bit of baggage to start with and being rejected here just adds more and they don't handle it well. Now this friendly site makes it sound like you can get laid any night of the week using their service. You should see the marketing e-mails we get. So when they don't get the easy score as promised and get ignored and don't understand all the rules of the site (limited e-mail for standard members, hundreds of e-mails a day for some women, etc) it just gets them aggrivated. And as you know some don't handle it well.
I'm sure all will be put to rights with PrincessKarma.
The bloggers are really a great community. It has made all the difference for me since I "crossed over". Everyone has so much to offer and it is helpful to know I am not alone in my situation.
Keep fighting the good fight.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
1/10/2006 4:42 pm

I back you step to one of us you step to all of us...I would like PK back too...

goldinboy2 60M

1/10/2006 5:14 pm

wow my eyeballs hurt after reading that. But you make a good point. Ok now everyone play nice again and if you don't want to "delete"

rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
1/10/2006 8:27 pm

I have stayed out of this because the people that are/were working behind the scenes to get her blog back told me that making posts like these was only making it more difficult for them.

As I told those who E-mail me looking for support, I think the best we can do is let those BtS people do their job. If they can't get her blog back, nobody can.

I hope she gets back, but I'm going to respect the wishes of those BtS on this one.

Good luck!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
1/11/2006 7:29 am

great post hun and i really don't think your a bitch ,just an honest soul

I'm a

i'm here to stay

guynamedjim 58M
729 posts
1/11/2006 9:01 am

REAL People seeking real connections

wished more women read this about us GOOD GUYS

GREAT POST truely ADULT content of higher order

As someone said recently at work: WE NEED TO LISTEN TO ONE ANOTHER MORE!

GleesFlakyShawl 50M
1620 posts
1/11/2006 9:37 am

btw, it seems Princess's knight in the shining armour has fallen, victim of enemies arrows.....

CheObscura 58M
16 posts
1/11/2006 10:48 am

Indeed. Rockwriter's blog has now been suspended too.

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

1/11/2006 4:53 pm

Something brash, and well spoken. 2 wonderful qualities...and your a what? A woman.

ooohProfessor 44M

1/11/2006 8:27 pm

Ahmen to that sister. I'm with you and all the other motherbloggers.

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
1/12/2006 11:45 am

I'm with you.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

KDR305 46M/46F

1/12/2006 6:34 pm

Well said.

This also means we should kindly point out to others when their words might be hurtful.

I know I myself have been guilty of misinterpreted musings online, only to spend much time explaining that I meant no ill will.

I'm just a sarcasm addict.

We should all give each other the benefit of the doubt on issues like that.

And we should definitly all band together against the disrespectful, arrogant, thoughtless assholes (of both genders) who sometimes infect us with their presence.

Great post!

CelticKarma 43F
1350 posts
1/13/2006 6:00 pm

Mandy, you're the greatest

puma040771 45M
1 post
1/16/2006 1:51 am

be yourself

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